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1. brtkdo+(OP)[view] [source] 2024-01-30 16:26:32
The ratio of housing cost vs real income almost tripled over the last 20 years in Sweden. Add a looming climate crisis and a self-fulfillment-oriented culture and you get very few new babies.
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2. pjc50+c1[view] [source] 2024-01-30 16:32:18
>>brtkdo+(OP)
> The ratio of housing cost vs real income almost tripled over the last 20 years in Sweden

I think this is all that needs to be said on these articles.

(There's a lot more that _could_ be said, such as how few actual birthing HN readers there are, but I think the economics is really simple at the root of it.)

Besides, even the countries with really the worst outlook and conditions aren't falling all that fast. Russia since the high point of the 1990s: https://www.worldometers.info/world-population/russia-popula...

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3. stonem+z2[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:38:07
>>pjc50+c1
But what is driving the housing prices up in the Nordics? Population decline would suggest weakening demand. The EU is famous for long lasting housing so lack of new inventory shouldn't hit supply side that hard.
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4. coffee+B2[view] [source] 2024-01-30 16:38:22
>>brtkdo+(OP)
Yeah you might get a value of a few hundred $ per month from the pro-natalist benefits but buying a dwelling for say 4 kids will cost you 200 years of wages
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5. toomuc+H2[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:38:48
>>stonem+z2
Population decline lags affordable property shortages (see Japan [1], where property price declines are following after rural population declines). The results of fertility decisions take years, or even decades, to see (although total fertility rate and annual births is a lower lag indicator). For example, declining school enrollment in the US is from fertility decisions made half a decade ago [2], because that's about the time when those kids born would've enrolled.

If there is insufficient supply, housing prices go up.

[1] https://www.aljazeera.com/economy/2023/7/14/japans-abandoned...

[2] https://www.ey.com/en_us/strategy/declining-enrollment-in-pu...

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6. pjc50+23[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:40:37
>>stonem+z2
The Swedish population is not declining. https://www.worldometers.info/world-population/sweden-popula...
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7. Someon+I3[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:43:32
>>stonem+z2
I didn’t check, but it’s a safe bet the average number of people in a household decreased significantly.

That could increase demand even if the population decreased slightly (which it didn’t, according to another reply)

8. kredd+o4[view] [source] 2024-01-30 16:46:24
>>brtkdo+(OP)
Upper-middle and upper class aren't having children either though, so my bet is on the latter side of your argument. Huge opportunity costs for having kids before your mid 30s, and afterwards, it's a bit late to have more than a couple kids to have sustainable population numbers.

Definitely a bit hypocritical of me, since I'm also a part of the problem who doesn't want to have kids. But, at least for me, it's not worth it right at this time.

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9. magica+p4[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:46:29
>>stonem+z2
Here in Norway it's primarily centralization. We used to have many living in small towns and cities along the coast and such, but young folks are moving to the larger cities[1].

This is driving up the demand a lot in central areas.

The houses left behind are not desirable for the same reason so many opt to keep them as summer homes, leading to shortages in the districs as well.

A lot of this has to do with jobs. We've lost a lot of jobs in the districs due to various reasons, and at some point these towns collapse. You need a certain minimum number of folks to have a decent school, a hospital etc. Once population drops too low the hospital gets shut down say and it's downhill from there.

[1]: https://www.nrk.no/vestland/byene-vokser-_-distriktene-blor-...

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10. fiftee+y4[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:47:37
>>toomuc+H2
I thought the house-as-an-asset mentality was the most to blame.

Are you sure most houses in the Nordics are occupied by the same family most of the time?

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11. whizzt+65[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:49:51
>>stonem+z2
Rising lifespans and immigration has made our population grow despite relatively low fertility.

Another huge problem right now is that the high prices has made it tricky for _older_ people to move, a large rent controlled apartment for an retired person is far cheaper than even the smallest new apartments if the lease is changed, so you have tons of retired people with kids that moved out (or should have moved out) living in 4-5 bedroom flats whilst families are crammed into smaller ones.

The only way out is to buy an apartment/house instead of renting, but here profit-taxation comes into play making elder people hesitant about selling because the huge price increases (often 90%) makes the 30% profit tax almost 30% of their selling price so they actually can't even afford to buy something reasonable since it'd anything relatively smaller would be too expensive for them.

One way out of this would be to lower the profit-tax of a dwelling by 0.5-1% for each year lived in it, that'd make retired people able to sell their dwellings w/o hardly any taxes and should enable a more dynamic market.

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12. christ+96[view] [source] 2024-01-30 16:53:30
>>brtkdo+(OP)
I found this article fascinating. It's about the uk affordability of housing but with 175 years of data.

https://www.schroders.com/en-gb/uk/individual/insights/what-...

You can clearly see the impact of ww1 and the influenza pandemic in the 1914-18 period.

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13. cortes+o6[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:54:23
>>stonem+z2
A baby born today isn't going to add demand for housing for almost 2 decades.
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14. beaegl+q6[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:54:26
>>kredd+o4
>Upper-middle and upper class aren't having children either though

Interesting. In USA fertility is tub / U shaped [0]. Filthy rich just hire nannies and bang away and dirt poor have none to negative opportunity cost

[0] https://twitter.com/theHauer/status/1222514313723875332/phot...

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15. anonpo+t7[view] [source] 2024-01-30 16:58:09
>>brtkdo+(OP)
Real disposable income in Sweden has increased 50% over the last 20 years.

https://tradingeconomics.com/sweden/the-real-gross-disposabl...

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16. fulafe+L7[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 16:59:40
>>stonem+z2
Housing policy, interest rates & urbanization are the usual factors everywhere, seems a safe null hypothesis here as well.

Eg in sweden, deregulation: https://www.thelocal.se/20230627/explained-swedens-plans-to-...

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17. irrati+R7[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:00:12
>>pjc50+c1
Wait, how do you know there are few actual birthing HN readers? How many children have I had?
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18. brtkdo+W7[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:00:34
>>anonpo+t7
Green is disposable income, orange is cost of apartment housing:

https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tonEuOE0IXE/WfpBpIzy8rI/AAAAAAAAF...

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19. jahnu+08[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:00:48
>>pjc50+23
Right!

In fact only Lithuania, Latvia and Estonia of the Northern Europe countries are showing a long term decline.

20. somena+d8[view] [source] 2024-01-30 17:01:36
>>brtkdo+(OP)
One of the big issues in housing is ultra urbanization though, where everybody wants to move into a tiny handful of locations. This just drives housing costs upwards basically without end. This graph of Stockholm's population [1] is just completely bonkers. But beyond this it also creates environments that aren't especially good for raising a family in, at least in general.

[1] - https://worldpopulationreview.com/world-cities/stockholm-pop...

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21. kredd+W8[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:04:13
>>beaegl+q6
Can you elaborate on that? Every statistic I've seen so far looked like even "the filthy rich" don't have enough kids. Obviously you'll get some exceptions that are talked again and again on the media, but that's not the norm.

Even by just looking at my surroundings, I have some friends who make decent money, and they're still on "no kids" train, even though hiring 24/7 help would just cost them pennies.

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22. anonpo+c9[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:04:59
>>brtkdo+W7
So what? Is not disposable income what's left over after you pay your mandatory expenses, like housing?

If real disposable income is rising, then people have more access to non necessary resources than they did before. So, they have more wealth, but are having fewer babies, which is the general trend.

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23. beaegl+C9[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:07:05
>>kredd+W8
Most the statistics cut off at ~200-300+k income catch all bucket which drowns out the rich averages. See my source above capturing higher income buckets which pronounce the U.

Near equal (higher) fertility at both extremes might be, but not proof of, the hypothesis the dirt poor and filthy rich are the fertility rate you get when opportunity cost looks near 0.

A bucket you often see stopping at 300+k imo far too low as the lower band of that is usually high stress highly educated long hours professional and small biz owners who have insane opportunity cost to have children.

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24. whizzt+ka[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:09:31
>>fiftee+y4
Not really, the privately owned stock is divided into privatized rentals (often in condo like associations) and houses. Afaik Houses are free to own (but outside of Germans wanting vacation homes there hasn't been much of an outside influx), most condos on the other hand requires you to have your official residence there (an association might grant temporary rentals but most associations frowns upon too long term rentals and the exceptions are often granted on a yearly basis).

There's other issues though (see my sibling post to GP)

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25. brtkdo+4b[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:11:59
>>anonpo+c9
> Is not disposable income what's left over after you pay your mandatory expenses, like housing?

No, it’s what’s left after taxes, before any actual spending on things like housing occurs.

> Gross disposable household income is the amount of money that individuals in the household sector can spend or save after income distribution measures.

https://www.ons.gov.uk/economy/regionalaccounts/grossdisposa...

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26. hotpot+kb[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:12:38
>>anonpo+c9
Housing isn't mandatory - the government doesn't put you in jail if you don't pay it; you just get evicted. Disposable income is basically just income minus required taxes.
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27. anonpo+Oc[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:18:35
>>brtkdo+4b
I'm wrong. Thanks for the correction.
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28. brtkdo+Vd[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:23:21
>>anonpo+Oc
No sweat! First time I’ve read those words on HN, kudos :)
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29. kredd+je[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:25:08
>>beaegl+C9
I still don't understand how the opportunity cost can be 0 for the rich. Women still have to get pregnant, and sacrifice a lot of things at the cost of 1 year per kid. Like sure, they'll have nannies, but the years of "when you can have fun and do all the self-fulfillment stuff" is gone. Usually that cohort of people are also fairly educated, so they have even more connections and opportunities to lose during those lost years.

Sure, if your goal is to have as many kids as possible, that's a different topic. But that's statistically insignificant amount of people as of now.

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30. seanmc+Ae[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:26:18
>>pjc50+c1
Also the rising inaccessibility of child care. All other industries get some productivity boost, but in child care it is the opposite (productivity is going down per worker over time).
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31. somena+Je[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:26:56
>>pjc50+c1
Russia's not a great example to look at. They're one of the only 'Western' countries that's historically actually maintained a healthy fertility rate. The big catch in their numbers is that in the 90s the country turned into a near anarchic hellhole. But they managed to pull out of that and have had a growing fertility rate since 1998, which has been met with an ever widening array of pro-natal incentives, and a generally very pro-family culture as well. [1]

More relevant is something like Japan. [2] They are currently losing 1 in every 200 people, every year. And that rate of decline is still accelerating. And they have a similar fertility rate to Finland 1.37 vs 1.42. The only difference is that Japan has had its low fertility rate for longer, and so it's closer to the equilibrium rate of loss that such a fertility rate implies, while Finland is closer to their older higher fertility rates.

[1] - https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/RUS/russia/fertility-r...

[2] - https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/JPN/japan/population

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32. seanmc+hf[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:29:39
>>toomuc+H2
We are thinking about a second kid now, and realized...we kind of screwed up. Women are really most fertile from their 20s to very early 30s (and also have the best chance of a healthy baby, etc...), it is a time when most people aren't even thinking about getting married yet these days, let alone having kids! When you finally figure out you are ready...well...it is much harder to have a kid.

So we really needed to think of this a few years ago. It might still be possible, but now it is an uphill battle and will be a much higher risk pregnancy to boot.

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33. beaegl+Bf[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:30:49
>>kredd+je
Pregnancy applies to the poor too.

But agreed, there are costs that might not be offset by the rewards. Nevertheless the statistics remain filthy rich and dirt poor are acting as mirrors on the curve.

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34. thijso+Ei[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:45:02
>>seanmc+hf
If the woman is 35 and over it is called a geriatric pregnancy. Need to do a bunch of additional tests to make sure the kid doesn't have genetic defects.
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35. toomuc+Mi[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:45:59
>>thijso+Ei
Fun (?) fact: Birth defect risk for an over 40 pregnancy is the same as with a first cousin.
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36. moribv+bk[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:52:53
>>irrati+R7
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37. ipaddr+9l[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:56:49
>>stonem+z2
Mass immigration seems to be the global reason.
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38. api+ol[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 17:58:03
>>ipaddr+9l
Only makes sense if you also restrict housing supply, otherwise we just build more housing.

If we had high birth rates without building housing that would also drive up housing prices.

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39. api+Em[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 18:03:26
>>pjc50+c1
https://worksinprogress.co/issue/the-housing-theory-of-every...

I'm very much a believer that housing costs are at the root of a whole lot of what's wrong with... everything.

It's long past debate and long past time for neighborhoods to come up with a "vision." We need state and national level mandates for zoning reform and density increase, and if you're against it too bad. NIMBYs had 50 years to come up with something other than obstructionism.

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40. thrift+iL[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 20:03:17
>>pjc50+c1
Russia has reasonably affordable real estate as well as quite peculiar job market.

A lot of real estate is being built and most of it is "low cost" economy class, which in the end lets a lot of people who want that, own an apartment and have children. Home ownership statistics are also great.

The pay is meager but at least jobs are there, meaning that if you own an apartment or a house (often inherited from your ancestors in some form) and is employed, and can fall back to Babushkas' safety nest, you can have children and that will not ruin you. Also, actual child care benefits are fine. Long parental leave et all.

Russia also actually saw a lot of economic growth since both 1999 and 1991. Perhaps the most of all ex-USSR countries, save for Baltic states, but in case of Baltics there's a serious job crunch as far as I know. The pay is nice but securing it becomes a headache. In the end it's easier to move westwards.

I'm not sure why you would assume Russian outlook is particularly bad, especially if we're talking before the 2022. After 2022, too early to say.

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41. thrift+6N[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 20:10:34
>>kredd+je
I can't say for everybody but around 30 "fun and self-fulfilling stuff" becomes repetitive and bland. You see the end of it and then having a baby changes everything. Fun but bland thing become funnier once you experience them together with the little person.
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42. thrift+RN[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 20:13:50
>>somena+d8
You can just build. Perhaps the "never lived lavishly, no reason to begin" attitude would have hepled.

[1] https://yandex.ru/images/search?text=мурино

[2] https://yandex.ru/images/search?text=кудрово

[3] https://yandex.ru/images/search?text=парнас

[4] https://yandex.ru/images/search?text=филатов%20луг

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43. irrati+4Q[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 20:23:16
>>moribv+bk
If you put in a decimal and rounded up, you would be correct.
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44. SAI_Pe+Bc1[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 22:15:32
>>cortes+o6
A couple with a house not large enough to support a child the way they want does add to the housing demand, or they skip the kid.
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45. kredd+rk1[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 22:57:20
>>thrift+6N
To each their own. I've heard second hand accounts for all kind of scenarios - parents regretting their decisions in their 30s, extremely happy parents, childless extremely happy couples in their 50s, and some with their regrets. That being said, even if you have 1 child to "have some fun with the little person", it's still below 2+ children a couple is supposed to have to fix the birth rate problem.
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46. thrift+lo1[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-30 23:19:05
>>kredd+rk1
I advise having at least two since they will make each other busy and get out of your hair sometimes. And these arguments are totally decoupled from birth rate problem.
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47. kredd+1G1[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 01:17:47
>>thrift+lo1
Thanks, I’ll think about it!
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48. anovik+Wa2[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 05:39:31
>>somena+Je
Macrotrends is a spam site which is full of completely erroneous data on almost every topic. Just look up their China demographic data - it's just laughable.

Russia has lower fertility rate than EU average, at 1.50 vs 1.53. And a higher and faster growing share of Muslim population than Europe.

Overall, death rate is about 1.37x more than birth rate in Russia (999.14 vs 728.02 per 100K in first 10 months of 2023 - link to official stats https://statprivat.ru/demo2020?r=3). In EU it's 10.7 vs 9.5 per 1000 (in a full year), so only 1.12x the difference. Births are 8% lower per 1000 and deaths, 12% higher. Plus, Russia has a higher proportion of Muslim population than any EU country and it grows faster too, so for white population situation is beyond dire: in ethnic Russian majority regions apart from Moscow and St. Petersburg, death rate at 2.5-3x the birth rate is the norm.

If you've been under impression that Russia somehow has some sound demographic policy and/or family culture and is doing better in this respect than any European country, you're just a victim of Putin's propaganda. Compared to EU states, Russia is only better than Bulgaria in this respect.

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49. pjc50+Yx2[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 09:33:12
>>api+Em
What people actually seem to want is the ability to use the planning system to veto their neighbours having children.

People vehemently do not want density increases around them or "changes to the character of the neighbourhood", and if driving the birth rate down helps with that goal then they're fine with it.

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50. somena+h93[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 14:23:58
>>anovik+Wa2
I'm not sure of their source, but you get the exact same figures on Statista. [1] Somebody who has an account should be able to get the source from that site, which I'm quite curious of. I was initially ready to dismiss you as a nutter, but I do agree actually - even Russian official numbers give lower rates, so far as I can tell.

That said, your analysis is a bit misleading. Because while deaths/births are ultimately what fertility comes down to, it's a long lagging result. Taken to extremes, if a country of 20 year olds had a rapid extinction level fertility rate of 0.1, births would still far outpace deaths for many decades. Vice versa if there was a country made up of mostly of the elderly and then a small number of high fertility youth, deaths would outpace births for many years - in spite of [now] healthy demographics.

So fertility is what matters. And no, I don't think Russia is the epitome of what we should do. They have endless problems including alcohol abuse, a hugely imbalanced sex ratio, high suicide rates, and more. But I do think they're working to solve their problems in a way that is likely to create a better and more sustainable future for themselves. By contrast much of the Western world today seems content to behave in a generally myopic and reactionary fashion. Even in this very thread you see some people positive about lower fertility rates because climate. It's like seeing your house burning down and being happy that you won't have to fix that leaking sink anymore.

[1] - https://www.statista.com/statistics/1033851/fertility-rate-r...

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51. somena+jf3[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 14:55:05
>>thrift+RN
I completely agree with the attitude, but not necessarily the implementation. Would you want to live in any of those places? Let alone raise a family in one? In the second link, I think the difference between the presumably idealized/proposed [1] version of one of these areas, and what it inevitably turns into [2] demonstrates the issue.

So it would probably be reasonably affordable, but only because you'd make it less desirable to live there. Then enter the general problem of people's complete disregard for other's property in many places in the Western world and those places would become highly unpleasant, if not unsafe, quite quickly - especially if they were very affordable. There's a reason "the projects", everywhere, end up the way they do.

[1] - https://avatars.mds.yandex.net/i?id=e67240f3f995f865b864bee1...

[2] - https://avatars.mds.yandex.net/i?id=05678345cd91e9579bd7e719...

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52. hahama+vl3[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 15:23:59
>>toomuc+H2
If you're waiting for your life to be stable enough to have children, most likely you're never going to have them.

As years go by, life becomes more complicated, not less. With or without children.

Having children also involves sacrifice, improvisation, unpredictability, suffering... and lots of people are apparently allergic to all of those things.

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53. anovik+jH3[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 17:05:21
>>somena+h93
That contradicts official statistics from Russia itself though. They claim 1.42 for 2022, not 1.82.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_federal_subjects_of_Ru... (the data is copied from https://fedstat.ru/indicator/31517# - Federal Statistics service of Russia - but it's closed for access from outside).

1.42 is worse than in 20 out of 27 EU countries and worse than in EU overall (1.53). With much lower readings in Russian-populated regions, i.e. it hangs on Muslims. Of which Russia has more and they grow faster than in any EU country. Some almost purely Russian-population regions rival South Korea in low fertility with <1.0 readings. Probably fertility of Russians themselves is under 1.0 in all regions except Moscow.

Not sure why you are trying to find something good where it simply isn't.

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54. somena+RP3[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 17:37:19
>>anovik+jH3
Your reading comprehension could use a bit of a tune up.
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55. api+eg4[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 19:46:37
>>pjc50+Yx2
Yep, and this is what has to be crushed.
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56. thrift+du4[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 20:55:04
>>somena+jf3
You can buy this one, save for a few years and get a better one, then have children.

Once you get this rolling you can improve your situation every few years.

The problem with "the projects" is that undesirable people get to live there practically for free. But that is not the case in Russia or China. Everybody lives in some sort of high-rises and has a middle class life.

But, you can also absolutely have a kid there as well.

Otherwise, people would love to be able to afford a house or at least a townhouse, but modern economy gets in the way of that wish, especially from scratch.

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57. toomuc+iM4[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-01-31 22:34:54
>>hahama+vl3
> Having children also involves sacrifice, improvisation, unpredictability, suffering... and lots of people are apparently allergic to all of those things.

Rightfully so. There is no extra credit for unnecessarily burdening yourself.

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58. rickyd+qy5[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-02-01 06:52:44
>>whizzt+65
Another factor keeping older people in place is that they've put a lot of energy into the yard or their house to make it the way they want it to be. For example, if my mom, a still sharp and active 90-year-old, couldn't live independently, and spend time in her garden, she would probably pass in 2 - 3 months. Expiration after loss of independence and access to the outdoors is a common way to die in my family.
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59. CRConr+zc6[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-02-01 13:49:37
>>somena+Je
> They're one of the only 'Western' countries that's historically...

...in pretty much no sense of the word a "Western" country.

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60. CRConr+md6[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-02-01 13:55:08
>>irrati+R7
No idea about you personally, but I'm fairly sure the overwhelming majority of HN readers are men.
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