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I can't say for everybody but around 30 "fun and self-fulfilling stuff" becomes repetitive and bland. You see the end of it and then having a baby changes everything. Fun but bland thing become funnier once you experience them together with the little person.

>>thrift+(OP)
To each their own. I've heard second hand accounts for all kind of scenarios - parents regretting their decisions in their 30s, extremely happy parents, childless extremely happy couples in their 50s, and some with their regrets. That being said, even if you have 1 child to "have some fun with the little person", it's still below 2+ children a couple is supposed to have to fix the birth rate problem.

>>kredd+lx
I advise having at least two since they will make each other busy and get out of your hair sometimes. And these arguments are totally decoupled from birth rate problem.

>>thrift+fB
Thanks, I’ll think about it!