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1. cbcowa+(OP)[view] [source] 2018-01-16 17:40:36
Hi! I'm the creator of Leap. Glad to answer questions here.
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2. aiiane+C1[view] [source] 2018-01-16 17:48:40
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Why exclusive to Facebook users?
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3. EGreg+Y1[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 17:51:05
>>aiiane+C1
Perhaps because Facebook provides an easy and fairly reliable way to determine someone's sex. Many projects including dating sites have relied on it to do authentication for this reason.
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4. aphext+X2[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 17:57:35
>>EGreg+Y1
And it’s awful. This trend needs to stop. Facebook is an ad tracking platform, not a universal authentication scheme.
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5. cbcowa+o3[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 17:59:20
>>aiiane+C1
Leap members use their true identities, so when someone new joins I make sure they are a real person. I chose Facebook auth to get started, but I'm planning to add additional auth mechanisms down the road.
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6. proble+s3[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 17:59:43
>>EGreg+Y1
I fail to see how it'd be good for this use - do they require a number of friends or something? I have 4 Facebook accounts for faking out exactly this kind of stuff, but none with any real information.
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7. Operyl+x3[view] [source] 2018-01-16 17:59:56
>>cbcowa+(OP)
What’s the current queue look like, how long does it take for someone to get invited? How does moderation go on, what if a discourse gets way off track? There’s no perfect community, but I have high hopes here.
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8. TheAda+H3[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:00:40
>>cbcowa+(OP)
I am really conflicted about this.

On one hand, I think that it will provide a valuable resource for a large group of people, which is good! On the other hand, an online tech community designed solely for men would be met with hate and massive backlash.

If equality is our goal, how will self-segregation help meet that goal?

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9. seany+U3[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:01:27
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Is there going to be support for moderation transparency? Moderation bias seems to be an issue in these kinds of "closed" discussion platforms.
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10. probab+b5[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:07:19
>>cbcowa+(OP)
I'll go straight to the difficult questions:

1. I thought gender-based discrimination was illegal. How is Leap not illegal?

2. One of the main objections of "gentleman's clubs" was that their (male) members had access to important networking contacts, putting women in unequal foot in an unfair way when it came to businesses. Wouldn't Leap be unfair in the same way?

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11. glorkk+j5[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:07:48
>>EGreg+Y1
A sizeable and growing portion of the population refuses to have any dealing with this shady corporation. Facebook is not a universal authentication platform and never will be.
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12. cbcowa+86[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:13:06
>>Operyl+x3
I'm glad to hear it! I look up each person who signs up for the beta to make sure they're a real person, so it depends how many people request access and how fast I go.

So far discourse has not gone off track. When participants disagree they've been able to discuss their views constructively and assume the best in each other. That's something I'm most excited about. I expect there will be cases where that's not true though, so members who don't contribute in a net positive way will lose access to the community.

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13. kdelok+n6[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:14:18
>>TheAda+H3
Not involved with Leap at all, but I've always felt like this sort of thing depends on how much discrimination your group is subjected to. Self-segregation like this provides a forum for constructive discussion, particularly if your group is still subject to discrimination (e.g. being undermined by the dominant group, intentionally targeted by trolls, threatened or cajoled).

I don't know if it's a useful analogy, but I consider it akin to global warming being discussed by climate scientists in a totally public forum. The volume of anti-global warming sentiment and media coverage (both for and against) would completely disrupt such attempts.

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14. lynnet+x6[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:15:11
>>TheAda+H3
While I understand this perspective, I also know that being a women in tech can feel incredibly lonely. Growing up, I was always comfortable being the only girl in a big group of guys. In fact, I still consider myself to be quite the tomboy. However, being the only woman in a room of 100 men at a meet-up can feel pretty isolating. (Especially when a dozen of them assume that I'm a recruiter. I'm not. I'm a web developer.) Many of my peers are the only woman on their >10-person engineering team. In my mind, Leap is a valuable resource for a not-large-enough group of people, and will hopefully contribute to growing the numbers of that group.

Ps. There has already been discussion on Leap about inviting men to the community, and I'm sure it'll continue to be discussed! I don't think anyone wants to draw lines in the sand or create a "Us vs. Them" mentality. I do think everyone wants to have at least one person, one ally, in their corner though.

15. byprox+27[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:18:22
>>cbcowa+(OP)
I'm XY and won't be able to contribute to the community, which I have no problem with. However, I do like to read fruitful conversation (via hackernews, reddit, online comment platforms, etc.). I suppose readership would also be private and limited to women? I definitely understand why that'd be the case, but it does seem to make it more difficult for me to get a balanced perspective from platforms that are majority men.
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16. fruzz+57[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:18:31
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Thank you for doing this.

I've definitely noticed a dynamic at play in male-dominated soft eng spaces online that silences women. It has to do with men's behaviour and shitty comments in those spaces. Not all men, of course, but enough men - and almost exclusively men. It's why I'm no longer on r/programming. I'm tired of having to put up with that and I'm glad you created this space.

I look forward to checking it out.

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17. rev_bi+D7[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:22:02
>>probab+b5
>Wouldn't Leap be unfair in the same way?

This assumption completely disregards the measurable advantage men have in the tech community. If you have identical programs, one for a historically disenfranchised group, and one for the group that's been in power for decades, only one of those programs is shitty.

edit: "Advantage" was a poor choice of words, but since it's been quoted in replies I'll leave it. I meant something more like "given the gender disparities in the tech community."

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18. TheAda+98[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:24:25
>>rev_bi+D7
> This assumption completely disregards the measurable advantage men have in the tech community.

There is obviously an imbalance in the industry, but can you please provide proof that this is due to an advantage that men have?

> If you have identical programs, one for a historically disenfranchised group, and one for the group that's been in power for decades, only one of those programs is shitty.

Why would fighting racism with racism or sexism with sexism be a productive method of correcting imbalances? Wouldn't that just fuel and maintain the disdain between groups?

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19. fvdess+a8[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:24:26
>>rev_bi+D7
> The measurable advantage men have in the tech community

What is that advantage and how is it measured ?

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20. ianwal+f8[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:24:47
>>TheAda+H3
I am curious: have you spent a lot of time thinking about this or was this the first reaction that popped into your head?
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21. kdelok+v8[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:26:00
>>cbcowa+(OP)
(not for me, so I'm not sure how much I could respond to questions)

Is Leap for people who are i) female, ii) identify as a woman, or iii) both?

I ask because I have a few friends who are biologically female, but genderqueer (by which they mean that they don't prescribe to the cultural stuff that is usually attached to gender). Would this be suitable for them?

As a more general note, since this looks to be a community that's about inclusion and addressing discrimination, it might be worth taking care not to conflate "female" and "woman".

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22. rubico+D8[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:26:27
>>probab+b5
I am interested in the answers to these tough questions as well. I can sympathize with the position women are in and can understand the strong desire to form an organization like Leap. To that end, I applaud and support them.

However, I do wonder about comments like this:

> "a community where the core culture was set by women, and the software and product decisions were also made by women"

Progressives are currently combatting this same kind of toxic / exclusionary behavior in men that exacerbates the inequality between men and women to this day.

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23. glorkk+E8[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:26:38
>>rev_bi+D7
> the measurable advantage men have in the tech community

I’m sure if it is “measurable” you can provide some numbers?

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24. TheAda+X8[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:28:42
>>ianwal+f8
That is a good question, and I've thought about it a lot. There seems to be a growing group of people who think it's okay for minorities to discriminate against the majority in order to gain more power, but I'm just not convinced that it's the right way to correct social imbalances. I think that it would lead to everyone both in the majority and minority feeling persecuted. I think this would fuel and maintain hatred and disdain between groups instead of finding a way for everyone to thrive within a single group. If you disagree or see a flaw in my thinking, please let me know.
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25. cbcowa+2b[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:39:12
>>fruzz+57
I'm glad you like the concept and are going to check it out! Look forward to having you join.
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26. rev_bi+Wb[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:43:08
>>TheAda+98
>Why would fighting racism with racism or sexism with sexism be a productive method of correcting imbalances? Wouldn't that just fuel and maintain the disdain between groups?

Is this the "all lives matter!" response to this project? It's not a crime to point out that some groups are poorly represented in an industry. Are you saying the solution to "hey, women feel isolated in the tech industry" is to say "Well, let's figure out how to include men too"? If women felt like their discussions were being treated fairly in public forums, they'd have stayed in them.

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27. cbcowa+2c[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:44:00
>>seany+U3
I expect moderation will evolve as the community evolves, but I don't plan to limit what people choose to talk about so long as participants treat each other with respect.
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28. rev_bi+Nc[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:47:41
>>fvdess+a8
As I noted above, "advantage" was the wrong word, my apologies. There's tons of information out there about the disproportionate number of men working in tech, to say nothing of the salary discrepancies that cause so much drama here.

At the end of the day, women say they feel that they feel isolated by an industry that is overwhelmingly male, and that being able to connect with other women and discuss their experiences is a valuable way to stay in a career that they might otherwise bail on. I'm inclined to believe them.

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29. Sephr+fd[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:49:31
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Do you allow intersex people to join Leap?
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30. metaph+Bd[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:51:20
>>fvdess+a8
We women in tech frequently need to re-hash this discussion. We offer personal anecdotes, and they are written off as outliers. We present diversity numbers and pay gap data, and we are told that those are due to women either choosing family life over career or that we are biologically predisposed to not being as good as men at tech. We present data and stories about rampant, institutionalized sexism at large industry leaders, and we are scolded for being "overly sensitive". Assertiveness is conflated as bitchiness. Timidness as incompetence. The advantage is apparent - the real goal of constantly asking us to prove the advantage is to create doubt and the appearance of a controversy over the data. But I see these as thinly veiled gaslighting attempts. I have worked in tech all my life, and have had many men take credit for my initiatives and ideas, talk over me constantly through most meetings, pass me up for promotions because I didn't "engage with the team" (ie. attending late night drinking sessions at strip clubs), always get second guessed - even when I am the resident SME and was hired specifically for task, etc. I have lived it. If more men would make themselves aware of the systemic sexism in the industry instead of making women repeat themselves, argue every data point, and be 3x as good as their peers to receive recognition, maybe we could stop having this discussion . . .

See:

https://blog.100tb.com/the-technology-industry-is-a-mans-wor...

https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2017/08/women-in-tech-gender-...

https://www.witi.com/articles/1165/Men-Dominate-the-Tech-Ind...

https://qz.com/940660/tech-is-overwhelmingly-male-and-men-ar...

Also:

http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Timeline_of_incidents

There are piles of data. Seriously, you are one google away from incontrovertible evidence.

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31. ianwal+2e[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:53:00
>>TheAda+X8
Cool, I disagree with your conclusions but it would be nice if there was a better way to correct social imbalances. They definitely don't seem to fix themselves!
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32. cbcowa+9e[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:53:35
>>kdelok+v8
Thank you for asking. iii – My goal is to create an inclusive community. I'd say Leap is suitable for your friend. I am also learning as I go, so would love feedback!
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33. msla+ee[view] [source] 2018-01-16 18:54:06
>>cbcowa+(OP)
How does your site cater to the nonbinary and trans communities?

Does the fact you apparently require participation in Facebook to register signal that you agree with Facebook's policy of outing trans and gender-non-conforming individuals in the enforcement of its "real name" policy?

(Not to imply that's anywhere near the only problem with Facebook's "real name" policy: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook_real-name_policy_cont... )

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34. EGreg+De[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:56:11
>>proble+s3
Presumably most people are not like you and have only one account. The site can make sure you have had an account for at least a year and your sex is female. Otherwise you may want to fake it to get in.

It's the most reliable "easy" way I know to determine this info. I remember an app called Lulu which did the same.

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35. metaph+9f[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:58:30
>>rev_bi+Wb
> If women felt like their discussions were being treated fairly in public forums, they'd have stayed in them.

This so much. Most men in tech can have a majority male discussion in any open community, due to their numbers. The amount of disparity from men towards leap in this thread is a prime example of why we women in tech seek to have discussions in more closed environments.

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36. TheAda+kf[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 18:59:16
>>rev_bi+Wb
> Are you saying the solution to "hey, women feel isolated in the tech industry" is to say "Well, let's figure out how to include men too"?

No, my solution to a sense of isolation is instead to find ways for women to no longer feel isolated within their field.

A great example with the other sex would be male nurses. Male nurses are definitely the minority in their field, yet they manage to not feel isolated overall. Even if they did, creating a male-nurse-only group wouldn't do a thing to correct the isolation-causing systems in their place of employment, and would only work to further separate male nurses from the majority by isolating them from the wider nursing community.

If women feel isolated, we should try to find out why and correct that instead of just sticking them with other isolated women.

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37. scarmi+Zf[view] [source] 2018-01-16 19:02:47
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Hi Cadran! I'm a male identified person, and I think Leap's a great idea. A couple questions:

1) If someone put you on the spot and asked you to pigeonhole Leap, would you say it's intended to be a Hacker News for women?

2) Has there been any discussion of a observer/lurker status for men?

3) Do participants primarily shift their time spent on other (open?) tech/social forums towards Leap, or do they increase their total amount of time spent on forums to make space for it?

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38. rev_bi+gh[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:08:26
>>TheAda+kf
The only way you'd be able to say "groups like this won't fix feelings of isolation!" is if you ignored all the women in this comment section saying it has definitely helped their feelings of isolation. Which I guess might be kind of the point.
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39. cbcowa+sh[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:09:12
>>scarmi+Zf
1. Nope! HN is for everyone. Leap has its own unique UI and culture.

2. We haven't discussed a view only public mode in any depth. The idea of eventually allowing men to join has come up on Leap. No idea if that will happen though.

3. I don't survey users about that so I can't say with any accuracy. I also expect it depends on the person.

40. tbv+Qi[view] [source] 2018-01-16 19:15:39
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Can you support alternate forms of identity verification? I'd like to join, but I don't have a Facebook account.
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41. sieveb+zj[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:19:18
>>cbcowa+9e
Again! Your goal is not to create an inclusive community. Your goal is to create an exclusive community.

Look, if want to create a female only website then go for it. But you have to own your actions. You can't exclude half the population then claim you care about inclusion. That is rank hypocrisy bordering on the delusional - you are doing the exact opposite of what you claim.

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42. dang+Ak[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:25:27
>>sieveb+zj
I warned you once in this thread already (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16161338), but you've managed to break yet another HN site guideline with this comment, the one that reads as follows:

Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize.

Obviously Cadran was talking about making Leap inclusive within the scope of being a forum for women—that's what the question was about. You don't have to agree with any particular view to see that, it just takes basic respect. If you can't or won't abide by the rules here, please stop commenting until you can.

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43. boolea+ul[view] [source] 2018-01-16 19:30:15
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Hi,

Are transgender females allowed?

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44. eevils+zm[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:36:16
>>rev_bi+Nc
What do you mean "advantage" is the wrong word? In general men clearly have an advantage in tech. Denying it is like denying that white people generally have an advantage in America.

That you feel compelled to apologize reflects the self-preserving power of this male advantage.

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45. dang+Bm[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:36:30
>>TheAda+98
> Why would fighting racism with racism or sexism with sexism be a productive

Here you cross into making this yet another same-old generic ideological thread, thus guaranteeing repetition and tedium. What more we can do to explain to HNers that this is where discussions become off topic because the light/heat ratio goes to zero? I realize the line isn't obvious when a topic starts out close to it anyhow. But you know, it especially isn't obvious when you aren't consciously looking for it in the first place. Since you have a habit of doing this in HN threads and stand out as a user who's done particular damage this way—unintentionally I'm sure—we need you to do a better job with this.

Perhaps the following heuristic would help. If a comment breaks away from the specific content of the specific story and becomes generically ideological, it's on the wrong side of the line and you probably should not post it.

Note that this doesn't have to do with the ideologies or politics in question, or what view you're arguing for. It has to do with generic discussions being boring in HN's sense of the word.

https://hn.algolia.com/?sort=byDate&dateRange=all&type=comme...

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46. notyou+Hm[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:37:08
>>rubico+D8
Just wait until the real fun starts - it will soon become apparent that among a group that identifies as "women" there are those who would command the vast majority of the available resources, just like it happens among the group that identifies as "men" at which point that group would also need to be sliced and diced into subgroups with specific rules applied towards say... cis-women vs. non-cis-women or cis-women-that-look-like-karlie-kloss (or Iman)
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47. SrCode+Zm[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:39:23
>>aiiane+C1
What problem are they trying to solve that can't be solved by a closed Facebook group? Do we really need another social network?
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48. cbcowa+5n[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:39:53
>>tbv+Qi
Not yet, but I plan to in the future.
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49. fvdess+an[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:40:21
>>rev_bi+Nc
> At the end of the day, women say they feel that they feel isolated by an industry that is overwhelmingly male.

I would like to offer another point of view; A lot of the males who ended up in that industry are, to be blunt, social rejects. They were not the popular kids in high school, but those guys who were playing magic in the corner. Being a male in IT is a big stigma in the outside world. Nerd and Geek are still insults. There are entire sitcoms (IT Guys, Big Bang Theory) designed to laugh at them. Many dating website have the option to filter out men working in IT. I usually hide the fact that I work in IT and have found it very beneficial.

Now that there's money and power involved, things are changing a bit. But I still feel that a large reason that the IT community is like it is because it was simply excluded from society at large for a long time and still is in a way.

I think that people coming now and turning the table around with such righteousness is a bit insensitive. How would you feel about being excluded from the club you build for yourself after having been excluded from everywhere else ?

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50. fruzz+Hn[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:43:02
>>sieveb+zj
So here's the thing.

No space is being taken away. A new space is being created. This space is to give a voice to a population who reports, as a group, being silenced and undermined in other spaces by the dominant group.

This allows voices to be heard that weren't heard before. That's inclusion. Having those voices stay silent is exclusion.

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51. metaph+8o[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:45:39
>>notyou+Hm
Leap and similar communities are not essentialist, they are safe spaces for those people who share the experience of existing as a woman in the tech industry. It is a false equivalency to conflate Leap with terf essentialism. Additionally, why the quotes around men and women? Is this an attempt to be subtly transphobic?
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52. rev_bi+no[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:46:45
>>fvdess+an
>I would like to offer another point of view

Honestly, I don't give a shit about "another point of view," and that you think it matters here is a great illustration of why women would run for the hills, whichever hills don't have you on them.

This is not about someone's experience as a "social reject," this isn't about sad boys not being cool in high school because they like comic books. This is about women wanting a place to talk to other women about an experience that they feel isolates them from their male colleagues. That men sometimes feel lonely too has nothing to do with it.

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53. dang+xo[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:47:34
>>rev_bi+no
Your comments have been crossing into incivility in this thread—not principled incivility, just garden-variety internet swipes like "I don't give a shit", "this is nonsense", and "you're pretending". All this breaks the HN guidelines, regardless of how wrong someone else is or how right you are or feel. Please read https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and get on the right side of the rules if you want to keep commenting here.
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54. DannyB+gp[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:50:48
>>TheAda+kf
"If women feel isolated, we should try to find out why and correct that instead of just sticking them with other isolated women." Certainly you realize they may feel isolated because you are not sticking them with other women?

What is wrong with doing something like this until they generally feel less isolated, then moving on to something else?

IE Why is it unreasonable for this to be a step along the path?

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55. beat+Sp[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:54:38
>>fvdess+a8
Measurement is easy. Just look around you. The majority of people working in tech are men. An even larger majority of its leadership is men.

Why is this?

There are only two possible causes that I can see - genetic, or cultural. The genetic argument is basically that men are, by nature, better at being programmers and leaders than women - that women are inferior. The cultural argument is that there is a social advantage to being male (and a social disadvantage to being female) - that, all else being equal, things tend to default in favor of men.

Personally, I reject the genetic explanation. Most people do. If you also reject it, then you're stuck with the cultural explanation, or finding something I haven't come up with.

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56. beat+bq[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:56:21
>>glorkk+E8
I'm sure you can google them. Or, if you're in a tech office right now, just open your eyes and look around you for anecdotal evidence.
57. chaost+dq[view] [source] 2018-01-16 19:56:41
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Overall I feel that this is a good idea. When it comes to harassment, people tend to keep it quiet for various reasons, among them fear and embarrassment. While things have changed for the better recently, any venue that helps people speak up about their experience is a good thing.

Of course like everything else, there are trade offs, especially when this community is female only... While as a male I was aware of the existence of gender discrimination and harassment, I did not realize how ignorant I was of the subject and how terrible the situation was, until I read Susan Fowler's account at Uber. It was a paradigm change for me. How will Leap mitigate from potentially becoming a closed echo chamber? i.e. will this limit needed but hard discussions between the sexes? How does Leap prevent that?

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58. rev_bi+Aq[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:58:31
>>dang+xo
Oh! A moderator! How nice of you to arrive. No need to worry, I won't be coming back.
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59. beat+Hq[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 19:59:19
>>glorkk+j5
There isn't a universal authentication platform. Facebook is closer than most. And Facebook is strong for this in the interest of getting something out the door, to be improved later.
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60. fvdess+xt[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:13:13
>>beat+Sp
Could it be that the cultural problem is the low social status of IT Work ?
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61. sukhad+Eu[view] [source] 2018-01-16 20:18:16
>>cbcowa+(OP)
Is there a way to join Leap for people who don't use facebook?
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62. tptace+Gu[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:18:19
>>probab+b5
Gender discrimination is obviously not illegal. How do you think rec sports leagues or support groups work?
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63. _zachs+Yu[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:19:39
>>fvdess+a8
Note the lack of specifics. It's much easier to hold a viewpoint that can't be refuted if it's not measurable in the first place.
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64. totalZ+bv[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:20:25
>>dang+Ak
It appears to me that sievebrain's criticism lines up with any plausible interpretation of cbcowans' comment. One cannot claim the benefits of inclusion while also excluding half the population, and arguably more than half of tech professionals.

That's not to say that there's necessarily anything wrong with exclusion -- it is a fact of life in many ways, and can be fruitful. I am a member of some exclusive clubs and I find them to be highly rewarding.

Perhaps "hypocrisy" and "delusion" are inflammatory words, and should not have been chosen. I think a better way to characterize cbcowans' comment is "doublespeak," as the inherent nature of Leap is quite the opposite of her description.

Still, in regard to that particular HN site guideline, sievebrain's point applies to even the strongest possible interpretation of cbcowans' comment. There is necessarily a logical inconsistency between establishing an exclusive organization and then describing it as "an inclusive community."

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65. dang+8w[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:25:00
>>totalZ+bv
Words' meanings aren't absolute, they're relative to context. I bet we could find a dozen examples of that in your comment alone if we looked.

In this case the context is the question. Q: are all who identify as women welcome to join? A: yes, we want to be inclusive of all who identify as women. It's clear what "inclusive" means there, the same way it's clear that "join" doesn't mean sticking things together with carpenter's glue.

It does take a little work to remember that the same word can have two different scopes in the same discussion. Similarly, one might not use the same variable name to mean two different things in the same function. Nevertheless the meaning was reasonably clear and certainly plausible.

The problem is that when a word carries an emotional charge and the topic carries an emotional charge, outer-cortex nuances get flooded by deeper defensive reactions. This happens to all of us. It's one reason why discussions like this need moderation and the moderators need a lot of practice—and a lot of support—in order not to get flooded themselves. I'm dangling by the same thread much of the time, so I have empathy for it, but it's not ok for commenters to let themselves become disrespectful.

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66. beat+uw[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:27:17
>>fvdess+xt
That seems unlikely, considering that you see similar issues in high-status work, such as business executives or politicians.
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67. advent+vw[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:27:18
>>beat+Sp
So your argument is that men and women are exactly identical on all tasks for genetic purposes? Or are you arguing that such just happens to be the case as it pertains to programming?

From my observation, women are frequently proclaimed to be superior to men in numerous ways. My entire life I've heard that women mature faster than men. Women are proclaimed to be more nurturing. Women have higher 'emotional intelligence.' You'll see it almost universally proclaimed that if women ran the world, conflicts (eg war) would be far less common, this is a constant refrain in the US across all media.

There are very well understood differences between men and women when it comes to things like vision, physical strength, hand-eye coordination, spatial awareness, physical aggression, and so on. We also have many different health risks due to our genetic differences. All of these things add up to women universally living longer from one culture to the next, and women commiting drastically fewer acts of violence (and thus making up a far smaller percentage of the prison population).

If any of that is actually true, why can't men be superior at various tasks due to genetic differences? Why not programming? What I'm asking is: what's the scientific argument to say that men are not superior at programming, how can that be proven either direction? Just saying such is the case (either direction), is not enough.

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68. etjoss+Yw[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:29:24
>>fvdess+xt
Lawyers have about the same gender breakdown as computer systems analysts, so I don't think this is the case. CEOs are even more predominantly male, at a fairly shocking 73% by 2016 numbers (we'll have '17 soon).

The problem with tech in particular is that we're often viewed as an inclusive and progressive industry. But when you run the numbers, we're no better than the law firms.

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69. cbcowa+ay[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:35:10
>>sukhad+Eu
Not yet but I am planning to add other auth mechanisms in the future. If you send me a note at leap at ycombinator dot com I will let you know when I do. Thanks and sorry for that!
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70. etjoss+sy[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:36:19
>>fruzz+Hn
Thank you. It's really common for the arrival of a women-only (or trans-only, survivors-only etc.) space to be met with alarm from men. On the surface, that's not even a bad reflex to have - identify things that seem exclusive, and try to make them more inclusive.

But what we don't always realize is that the internet isn't terribly inclusive in the first place. There's a prevailing atmosphere in well-populated tech spaces - Reddit, HN - that tends to shut down women's voices, especially if they're talking about an experience that men on the internet can't relate to.

I'm all for this project, hope it works out.

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71. ambiva+Dy[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:37:16
>>cbcowa+9e
I'd love to chime in on this particular question. I am biologically female, but am gender-nonconforming in how I actually present and identify. I still see tons of utility in a place like Leap. While I don't fit the traditional description of what a woman looks like, I still am very much treated like one in the workplace (not to mention all the years of socialization and cultural treatment as a woman)!
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72. weberc+Yz[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:43:57
>>beat+Sp
Genetics could explain the disparity without resorting to a "women are inferior" conclusion. For example, it's possible that the ability distribution is more varied for men than for women such that if you sample from either extreme, you'll find more men, and if you sample from the middle, you'll find more women. Employers obviously prefer to sample programmers and leaders from the high-ability extreme, and therefore end up with more males. However, the mean and median could be the same for men and women.

There are other hypotheses as well that have nothing to do with social advantages--maybe biology or culture has women preferring to elect into other career fields? We also know that (for whatever reason) women prefer flexible careers that let them spend time with kids, and that women are more likely than men to take time off to start a family and that they take more time off than men to start the family. Perhaps men and women are equal in their desire to spend time with family, but society expects men to sacrifice time with family to provide for the family? In this case, the disparity is the result of a social disadvantage to being male.

These are just a few hypotheses that I could come up with in a few moments. Some of these I think are probable and others improbable, but the point is that we have more hypotheses besides misogyny and patriarchy. We shouldn't feel the need to buy into the patriarchy explanation simply to avoid the misogyny explanation (especially because the people who favor the patriarchy explanation also tend to propose some scary reforms, like restricting due process rights for one gender).

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73. forgot+LB[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 20:54:02
>>fvdess+an
You'd probably like this essay if you haven't seen it before: https://medium.com/@maradydd/when-nerds-collide-31895b01e68c
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74. TheAda+tD[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:02:38
>>dang+Bm
There definitely is something I'm not understanding if this comment crossed the line. I'm sorry, it's still not my intent to negatively affect the quality of this site.

This may seem pedantic, but what do you consider ideological? I said what I said because I saw it as a fundamental flaw of the community. I don't believe fighting discrimination with discrimination is productive, and I believe a woman-only community is discriminatory. Would it have avoided the genericism if I had tied it directly to the thread by saying "I believe this community is wrong because you can't fight discrimination with discrimination?" Or would mentioning discrimination genericize the conversation as well?

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75. etjoss+WD[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:05:38
>>fvdess+an
Revbird was right. Leap isn't about men trying to claw their way out of the stigma of their industry. It's about women having a place to share their experiences - because right now, it's really common for them not to feel welcome in male-dominated tech water coolers like HN or software subreddits.

Nobody is trying to exclude you from these larger spaces. Though if we want to get rid of the stigma of tech, we can start by making them more welcoming and inclusive.

In other words: if seeing something like Leap makes you viscerally mad, focus on fixing the reason it needs to exist in the first place.

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76. probab+2E[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:05:52
>>tptace+Gu
Gender is a protected class, so "it's (not) illegal" in either direction is a bit of a blanket statement. So let me try and be more precise.

In some states, AFAIK the "women-only gym" is allowed, but in others it isn't. The point, if I remember correctly, is "exercise requires such compromising clothes and positions, that the right to personal privacy trumps the right to not be discriminated based on gender". And even then, this is not a 100% clear case. Toilets and physical activity follow a similar (although less polemic) pattern.

Having said that, and as far as I understand, you need to show that discriminating based on gender is so important for your activity that it can't be done in any other way. My gut feeling is that, should anyone sue Leap, clearing that barrier would not be trivial.

I would appreciate a lawyer's point of view, and was hoping that Leap had already talked to one that could give a properly researched answer.

Edit: I found a very interesting article[1] about the law when it comes to all-female health clubs. As expected, the conclusion seems to be "it's complicated".

[1] http://digitalcommons.law.yale.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?artic...

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77. beat+cF[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:12:27
>>weberc+Yz
This isn't Lake Wobegon. Not all the children are above average.

You can cut this cake a different way, too... race. White people are overrepresented (or non-whites are underrepresented) in IT, and in high-status jobs. And the male/female representation ratios are different, as well.

Consider historic example, as well. Right now, women are significantly underrepresented as CEOs and senators. But a century ago, there were no women CEOs or senators. Are women less genetically inclined to their "proper" path as homemakers now than they were a century ago?

At a certain point, I start cutting the cake with Occam's Razor.

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78. Crespy+zF[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:15:02
>>cbcowa+2c
It's good to hear that you don't plan on being heavy handed, but as someone interested in online communities and governance, I'd still be interested in the answer to seany's question about moderator transparency.

Do you intend to have admin/moderator actions visible in some way to the users? If posts are edited or removed (by users or mods) does that get indicated in any way?

Different approaches to these issues can significantly affect how a community grows, and I'm always very interested to hear how new sites choose to approach the problem.

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79. thg+MF[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:16:38
>>beat+Sp
"The real reason why there are so fewer women in tech isn’t because of discrimination, harassment or unequal pay (although like I said these factors do exist and need to be fixed). The real reason is that most women clearly aren’t as interested in technology-related work as men are. It’s a choice. And for whatever reasons, more women seem to choose other fields."

https://www.forbes.com/sites/quickerbettertech/2015/03/16/th...

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80. purefu+vG[view] [source] 2018-01-16 21:21:20
>>cbcowa+(OP)
I'd like to join but I refuse to use Facebook. Please add a different option. Thanks :)
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81. tudorw+4H[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:24:32
>>probab+2E
me too, i'd hate to think this precedent would allow the creation of men only forums
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82. weberc+lH[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:25:47
>>beat+cF
> Not all the children are above average.

They don't have to be. Only the majority, and I have a hard time believing that the majority of software engineers and leaders are of average capability or worse. I'm open to data to the contrary, however.

> You can cut this cake a different way, too... race. White people are overrepresented (or non-whites are underrepresented) in IT, and in high-status jobs.

Not sure what your point is here. Are you implying that because there are racial disparities as well, then both gender and racial disparities must have a common cause? That's obviously fallacious, but I don't know what else to make of this.

> Right now, women are significantly underrepresented as CEOs and senators. But a century ago, there were no women CEOs or senators. Are women less genetically inclined to their "proper" path as homemakers now than they were a century ago?

No. I made no claims about the cause of disparities a century ago.

> At a certain point, I start cutting the cake with Occam's Razor.

Good. Then let's hold off on the elaborate conspiracy theories until we can invalidate the simpler explanations, eh?

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83. tptace+GH[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:27:30
>>tudorw+4H
You are already welcome to create a man-only forum.
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84. allerg+8L[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:48:27
>>byprox+27
It would be indeed interesting to be able to make some conversations public (upon some agreement), or to start public threads, although in read-only mode for non-members.

It also may give a clue to other women as to how exactly may the Leap community be beneficial for them, or what’s the culture like, before they decide if they need to join.

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85. beat+qM[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 21:57:53
>>weberc+lH
Pointing out the existence of sexism and racism does not require "elaborate conspiracy theories".

As for my point, it's that systematic bias against people by race looks remarkably similar to systematic bias against people by gender. That suggests a common cause, especially when one group (white men) is the beneficiary of both. Hence Occam's Razor. A single dominant group shutting out everyone who doesn't match the dominant traits is a simpler explanation than coming up with two entirely separate causes for the same observation.

As for historical disparaties... I know you didn't make claims about disparities a century ago. The historic example was an argument against the case you made that somehow, women are genetically predisposed to avoid certain career paths.

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86. metaph+VM[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 22:02:06
>>_zachs+Yu
What specifics are you seeking? Have you read any of the linked articles in this thread? Or performed a single google search?

-Pay Gap: https://www.aauw.org/research/the-simple-truth-about-the-gen...

-Employment Gap: https://www.forbes.com/sites/christinawallace/2016/10/20/gir...

-Leadership Gap: https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-06-02/why-so-fe...

-Visibility Gap: https://hbr.org/2016/09/to-succeed-in-tech-women-need-more-v...

-Sexism/Hostile Workplaces: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/04/why-is-...

-Hiring Discrimination: https://www.aauw.org/2015/06/11/john-or-jennifer/

-General Discrimination: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/11/20/the-tech-indus...

And just in case you missed it the last time: http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Timeline_of_incidents

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87. brucep+2N[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 22:02:52
>>beat+Sp
There's a third, which is that women are, on average, less interested in being programmers.
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88. brucep+eN[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 22:03:44
>>fvdess+xt
How does IT work have low social status?
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89. antist+eU[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 22:56:45
>>boolea+ul
Why would the answer to this ever be no?

If you identify as female, you should obviously be allowed.

90. msla+vW[view] [source] 2018-01-16 23:10:27
>>cbcowa+(OP)
I notice you refuse to answer questions regarding trans and gender-non-conforming people in general. Is your community trans-exclusionary?
91. msla+1Y[view] [source] 2018-01-16 23:19:35
>>cbcowa+(OP)
I have a question you might answer: Given the disparity in different races being able to participate, will any special consideration be given to people of color in this group?
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92. weberc+xY[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 23:22:32
>>beat+qM
> Pointing out the existence of sexism and racism does not require "elaborate conspiracy theories". As for my point, it's that systematic bias against people by race looks remarkably similar to systematic bias against people by gender. That suggests a common cause, especially when one group (white men) is the beneficiary of both. Hence Occam's Razor. A single dominant group shutting out everyone who doesn't match the dominant traits is a simpler explanation than coming up with two entirely separate causes for the same observation.

On its face, your explanation is simpler, but there is a whole bunch of evidence that forces the theory of sexism/racism to become more complex. Here are a few that pop into my head (in no particular order):

* Asians are kicking too much ass; a more complex theory is needed to explain why whites aren't holding Asians back when they're apparently happy to hold back blacks (and Hispanics, to a lesser degree).

* Women approached parity in medicine and law in the '80s and '90s when overt misogyny was the norm--long before million dollar diversity budgets; do we really believe that tech is more misogynistic than medicine and law in the '80s?

* Overt discrimination is on the decline, so we resort to increasingly improbable theories of microagressions and unconscious bias, however...

* Even progressive universities, industries, and companies aren't moving the needle on tech diversity despite million dollar diversity budgets and bias response teams

* Even the critical theorists can't pin it on sexism/patriarchy without calling into question math, reason, and objectivity

Also, what similarities are there between racial and gender disparities that constitute damning evidence in a common cause? What do these disparities have in common that (for example) the workplace fatality gap or the longevity gap lack? This seems much too loose to support your claim that sexism/racism is a simpler explanation than the dual explanations of "different gender preferences" and "artifacts of history including historical racism".

Again, my point isn't that the cause can't be a conspiracy theory; only that it has to be a very, very elaborate one. And it seems more probable to me that some combination of cultural and biological reasons drive women to make different career choices. I don't imagine you'll agree, but hopefully you can at least appreciate why I'm skeptical about the sexism/patriarchy explanation.

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93. Antica+wZ[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 23:29:54
>>metaph+8o
Doesn't seem all that subtle to me
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94. bmelto+F01[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 23:40:11
>>probab+2E
IANAL, but:

> Gender is a protected class

Which means that businesses doing public accommodation are restricted from discriminating, but 'private clubs' (such as the Boy Scouts), who have a narrowly tailored interest that is benefitted by discrimination against a protected class is generally allowed (subject to variances within state law).

For example, a group for men who have been sexually molested by men would likely be considered presumptively lawful, but a group for men who also happen to be car salesmen would likely not be.

There are a number of details that need to be considered as well, as (loosely) prescribed by _Rotary Club of Duarte[1]_, such as exclusivity (it can't be publicly available to be overheard), and purpose (already covered), but if neither conditions are met, and a state law prohibits such discrimination, then it meets (at least) a rational basis standard.

[1] - https://www.law.cornell.edu/supremecourt/text/481/537

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95. JoeAlt+E11[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 23:48:26
>>bmelto+F01
btw BSA now admits girls too. So maybe not the best example.
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96. TheAda+w21[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-16 23:56:13
>>DannyB+gp
> Certainly you realize they may feel isolated because you are not sticking them with other women?

This is possible. I do not know.

> What is wrong with doing something like this until they generally feel less isolated, then moving on to something else?

What I'm afraid will happen by taking this route(though I do not know that this will happen) is that this will divert energy that would have gone into converting work cultures to improve the interaction between men and women and shift that energy into an external forum that doesn't affect their real employment conditions in the slightest.

I'm also afraid of the optics of a double standard. If women can have women-only groups while men can't socially get away with having men-only groups at the same time that the number of women grows in the field, then that may make seemingly displaced men very angry.

I could be wrong. If you see a reason why this doesn't make sense, please let me know.

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97. bmelto+P21[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 00:00:42
>>JoeAlt+E11
Which, IIRC, they decided to do of their own accord, after having won suits around discrimination (e.g., _Dale_) Whether the point is mooted or not is up for discussion, but whether they have the right to discriminate is settled, according to the Supreme Court. They clearly do.
98. gravyp+i41[view] [source] 2018-01-17 00:11:54
>>cbcowa+(OP)
What would happen if a man lied to gain access to the community, became a respected member of the community, and was eventually discovered to be a man? Would that person be banned from the forum?
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99. to_bpr+K41[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 00:15:15
>>tptace+GH
>You are already welcome to create a man-only forum.

Any man taking such an action in 2018 would likely lose their career over it.

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100. tptace+371[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 00:35:13
>>to_bpr+K41
I'm not engaging with that, since it's not the question this subthread is addressing.
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101. didgeo+q71[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 00:37:58
>>advent+vw
Where women outperform men, that’s science.

Where men outperform women, that’s sexism.

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102. cbcowa+281[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 00:42:05
>>Crespy+zF
Thanks for the follow up. Leap is very young and I want the community guidelines to evolve as we learn and as the community changes. To that end – I don't plan to edit other people's comments, but I could imagine deleting an offensive one. If I do intervene in a conversation, I plan to do it transparently. That likely means posting on Leap about the actions I took.
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103. cbcowa+b81[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 00:43:23
>>purefu+vG
Thank you for the feedback!
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104. th1nkd+cD1[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 08:29:13
>>cbcowa+9e
A community that is only for people who "identify as women" is _not_ an inclusive community. Perhaps your comment should read - "My goal is to create an inclusive community only for people who identify as women". That will more accurately reflect what you've created.
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105. whatyo+WW1[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 13:15:46
>>cbcowa+9e
> My goal is to create an inclusive community.

You may have noble intentions, but refusing nearly half the population simply on the basis of their anatomy is not inclusive.

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106. YeGobl+ge2[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 15:30:19
>>thg+MF
I'm sorry but that is a very intellectually dishonest passage. There is real concern that women may be turned away fom technology careers because of cultural bias that says those jobs are not for women. And the answer to that is that "maybe they're just not interested"?

Well- how do you explain the fact that "they're just not interested"? Why is cultural bias not an explanation of this lack of interest? And if it isn't, then what is?

You can't just stop the ball rolling wherever you like. At some point we have to figure out why girls are not into technology as much as boys are and it's very lazy to just dismiss it as "not a girl thing".

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107. thg+9l2[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 16:18:19
>>YeGobl+ge2
There are real genetic differences in how the brains of men and women work. Men and women do not have the same interests, the same goals, nor the same desires. To claim otherwise is ignoring established scientific facts. Studies on this subject always lead to the same conclusion: That women are just less interested in tech jobs, just as men are less interested in social jobs.[0]

I presented the OP with a objective, data-based argument and limited myself to quoting only the article (of which there are many, many, many more I could have chosen from) exactly to avoid a subjective response like yours. I am not interested in ideological discussions about purely subjective arguments (Read: flamewars). You can ignore the data all you like, but please don't try to drag me into an argument with that.

[0]: https://flowingdata.com/2017/09/11/most-female-and-male-occu...

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108. dang+wG2[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 18:31:40
>>TheAda+tD
By ideology I mean something like predictable clusters of ideas around large questions. On HN it doesn't much matter which ideology people subscribe to or battle against—it's all more or less off topic here. There are two reasons.

First, all of it is predictable. Each time something gets repeated, its potential to gratify curiosity diminishes. In the case of ideological squabbles, the repetition is so entrenched that there's no curiosity potential left at all. What is has instead is strong conflict potential, meaning that such discussions not only add no value here, they burn up and destroy what does have value.

Second, it's all generic. The larger a question is, the harder it is to say meaningful things about it. Signal/noise ratio goes down as topics get more generic.

I don't doubt that it's possible for people to find new, meaningful things to say about large generic questions. But internet comments are not the right genre for expressing them. Someone who truly has such ideas would write a book or an essay, for the same reason one wouldn't excavate the foundation for a house with a thimble.

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109. sn+pK2[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 18:59:17
>>cbcowa+5n
Here are some ideas:

lobste.rs has a invite system where a person who invites someone may potentially be kicked if the person they invite is a problem. See https://lobste.rs/about#invitations

Organize a booth or representative at women-focused tech events like FFC or GHC, or have events/meetups for Leap members to meet face-to-face where prospective members are also invited. The invite system would make this easier to implement.

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110. YeGobl+ON2[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 19:22:02
>>thg+9l2
The data you present does not explain anything. It is just an observation. Yet you present it as an explanation to another observation.

By analogy, it's like answering the question "why do cows eat grass?" with "because cows are herbivores", which is really just restating the question. An actual explanation would require understanding how cows have evolved to become herbivores in the first place, and not meat-eaters, like, say, wolves. Without such an explanation, there is no way to understand why cows are herbivores and wolves are not.

By analogy, without any understanding of why women are not interested in technology jobs, there is no way to understand the gender disparity in technology.

>> You can ignore the data all you like, but please don't try to drag me into an argument with that.

This is very unpleasant. First you assume I'm "ignoring the data" when I actually discussed what the data means. Then you assign a motive to me, that I'm "trying to drag you into an argument". Please don't do that.

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111. YeGobl+Kh3[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 22:38:08
>>YeGobl+ON2
I notice there's a misunderstanding, so let me clarify this. I called the passage you quoted "intellectually dishonest", not you. And the "you" in the phrase "you can't just stop the ball rolling" did not mean you personally, but everyone in general.

The same goes for the sentence "how do you explain the fact". For example, if I asked the question "how do you invert a binary tree", I wouldn't be asking how a specific interlocutor would do it personally, rather, I'd want to know how it is generally done.

A more accurate way of stating the question would be "how does one invert..." etc. But that is a bit of an archaic turn of phrase that tends to make one look a bit of a twit, so one tends to avoid it. I do.

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112. thg+On3[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 23:34:18
>>YeGobl+ON2
> The data you present does not explain anything.

Not when you look at it subjectively and only focus on the specific subset that supports your argument. I believe that's called 'selection bias'.

> without any understanding of why women are not interested in technology jobs, there is no way to understand the gender disparity in technology.

The scientific understanding is there. It's just not the answer you want it to be and hence you ignore it.

> This is very unpleasant. First you assume I'm "ignoring the data" when I actually discussed what the data means. Then you assign a motive to me, that I'm "trying to drag you into an argument". Please don't do that.

>> that is a very intellectually dishonest passage.

>> You can't just stop the ball rolling wherever you like.

Of course it's okay if you do it. To a quoted article, no less, not even my own words. But when I point out what you did then I'm the bad person. This is why I had no desire to get dragged into this kind of discussion.

For the sake of the argument, I presume you are a woman (personally I don't care if you are male, female, a tree, or whatever else). You think that, just because you are interested in tech, every other woman must also be. That is false. The fact alone that you are a woman in tech means you are part of a minority. It doesn't matter how vocal that minority is, it still is just a minority that does not represent the interests of the majority. Just because you chose a career in tech, while most other females did not, does not inherently mean that there is a problem and that that problem needs fixing. Vegans aren't "sick" just because they chose to eat no meat. Salafists aren't bad people just because of their choice of religion. Cat owners don't hate birds just because they have cats. Most women just have no interest in a technical career. Be that (software) engineers, mechanics or truck drivers. It is a choice they made based on their interests (you can prove that yourself by just asking random women on the street) and it is on you to accept that you are part of a minority and that isn't going to change.

I myself am part of a minority too, being autistic. Unlike you, I have to deal with it no matter what I do and where I go. Would it be nice not to have to live in a world tailored to neuro-typicals and not having to face (extreme) prejudice everywhere I go? Hell yeah. But that is wishful thinking and not reality. Just like gender equality in tech is wishful thinking, but not more. The sooner you accept reality instead of chasing a dream based on wishful thinking, the sooner you can start making a difference for the women that made the same choice you did.

Now have a nice day. I have nothing further to add and won't answer you again.

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113. brucep+7o3[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-17 23:36:22
>>thg+9l2
The study you linked says nothing about genetics.
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114. YeGobl+hD3[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-18 02:11:43
>>thg+On3
>> You think that, just because you are interested in tech, every other woman must also be.

You keep assigning motives and thoughts to me, even though I made it clear that I find it unpleasant and asked you to stop it. I clarified that my original comment was not addressing criticism to you personally and that the use of word "you" did not mean you personally, either. I don't see what I did to justify your confrontational tone, other than disagree with your interpretation of some data.

As to the rest of your comment:

>> Most women just have no interest in a technical career. Be that (software) engineers, mechanics or truck drivers. It is a choice they made based on their interests (you can prove that yourself by just asking random women on the street) and it is on you to accept that you are part of a minority and that isn't going to change.

I'm not as uncommon as you think. I'm originally from Greece, where it is quite common for women to follow careers in technology and the sciences. It is not common in the UK where I live, but that suggests some sort of cultural bias. Additionally, I've worked with several female developers from India over the years and they also don't think it's uncommon, or that it's a job that's not suited for women- quite the contrary; they see it as "office work" which is definitely better for women than manual work.

But let's stick to women in the US and the UK, which I'm guessing you're more familiar with. The point remains that observing that "women are not interested in technology" does not explain why they are not interested in technology. Which means it doesn't explain why women are not pursuing careers in technology, either.

This has nothing to do with subjective or objective analysis. Data alone does not explain anything. It does not have exegetic power, one would say. So the observation that "women are not interested in technology" does not explain anything not because I don't want it to, but because it can't.

Theories do have exegetic power. But observations alone do not constitute a theory.

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115. th1nkd+KZ3[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-18 07:58:54
>>fruzz+Hn
I don't get it. How are these voices going to be heard outside of the echo chamber of the community? For voices to be heard by the broader population, the echo chamber needs to be open and inclusive.
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116. christ+qB4[view] [source] [discussion] 2018-01-18 15:29:35
>>probab+b5
I think one could easily start a website that was for men only-- a widower support system, say-- and no one would complain.

I think you could argue that Leap is somewhat similar to that. It's a support network for a group of people who face a particular challenge and need a safe place to talk.

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