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Do you also get mad when people use the word "guys" to refer to more than one person of either sex?

>>koala_+(OP)
This may be a joke, but a lot of people actually do get upset by this!

>>theori+33
Just imagine how upset people would get if you referred to a mixed gender crowd as "ladies"

"come on now ladies lets move the tour along" "Who you calling 'lady'!?"

Guys really is just a historically ingrained shorthand. I don't think I've ever heard it used in this sort of context to cause harm. Using "Ladies" in this way, on the other hand, could cause yourself harm.

>>ItendT+A4
Back in school, my sports coaches would sometimes refer to all male groups as "ladies". However, I suspect this is not what you're talking about ;)

As much as anything, I've heard many women refer to mixed gender groups as "guys" or "dudes". A lot of this "definition creep" is actually due to women themselves. Probably this is because the male identity is viewed as a source of power, and women seek this out and aim to identify with it.

In other words, I don't think the use of "guys" generically is being driven by sexist men. I think it's being driven by blurring of gender roles and definitions, and adoption of these generic terms by women.

>>ItendT+A4
Wtf are you talking about? People do that all the time.

>>koala_+(OP)
"Guys" to include a mixed audience is how we get shit like "he" as default pronoun.

>>GFK_of+7y
Oh no!!! That's literally rape, omg.