Systemd and Xorg are very similar in many ways. I do not know how you hate Systemd and love Xorg unless your real problem is just change.
And, while I like Wayland, I think that liking the Wayland architecture should have you disliking Systemd. But that is just me.
The two projects are complete opposites except in one way, they replace older stuff.
In X11/Xorg's case, a common example would be environments built off different window managers, panels, launchers, etc. In theory nothing prevents Wayland to have something similar but in practice 17 years after its initial release, there isn't anything like that (or at least nothing that people do use).
At least in my mind, the Unix philosophy isn't some sort of dogma, just something to try and strive for and a base (like X11) that enables others to do that doesn't go against it from the perspective of the system as a whole.
It's been 17 years and Wayland has yet to reach feature parity with X11/Xorg. There is doubt that it ever will.
Regardless of what you think the Unix "philosophy" is, actual features matter.