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1. kulaha+(OP)[view] [source] 2025-07-29 16:21:08
I feel much the same way. This is a real headache of a problem for me because I'm pretty privacy-oriented, but this is a serious, serious problem that needs real intervention.

Way too many kids are rotting their brains away either becoming gooners or clout-chasers. I thank God every day I was born too early to have access to this stuff as a kid. I can't imagine what this "you must always be online and also sexy" culture is doing to our youngest generations.

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2. NoGrav+l4[view] [source] 2025-07-29 16:40:57
>>kulaha+(OP)
Interestingly, the youngs in the US seem to be much less into sex and drugs than previous generations. The stuff we got up to as GenX youth are legitimately shocking to our children.
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3. kulaha+d5[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-29 16:45:14
>>NoGrav+l4
I've seen nothing to state that sexual activity is down. Unplanned pregnancies maybe, but that's not the same thing. Do you have a source for this? I could be convinced pretty easily, it just sounds wrong to me.
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4. NoGrav+z7[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-29 16:58:18
>>kulaha+d5
Look at this article - not so much for the article itself, scroll down for the CDC and NIH data it links to.

"While generalizing about tens of millions of people is always difficult, a series of studies in recent years have reported that teens since the tail end of the millennial generation trend towards being less sexually active; they launch their sex lives later and have fewer sex partners than earlier generations."

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5. kulaha+ba[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-29 17:12:18
>>NoGrav+z7
Interesting, I missed that. Anyways, while I think this is an important piece of info, we're still talking about porn rather than sex. There's a difference between exploring with an also-awkward person your age and watching someone else do things they don't actually enjoy while making noises they don't really make, in positions that are more obnoxious than fun, making it look more desirable than it really is. I get this because that's how I discovered sex - just like every other human for the last however-many-million-years.

This is the first time you're getting dozens, maybe hundreds of hours of watching someone do it arguably "wrong".

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6. NoGrav+5c[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-29 17:21:36
>>kulaha+ba
Anecdotally, it's the porn that is turning GenZ off of sex - but I don't think there are studies to back up the anecdotes.
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7. ta1243+ZF[view] [source] 2025-07-29 20:25:27
>>kulaha+(OP)
Give me the IP addresses of every site and I'll blackhole them on my router if I want to. That solves the home problem. I'll also ask why gambling sites, which litter sports broadcasting, aren't included, and indeed why gambling is allowed to be advertised to under 18s at all.

Doesn't solve the away problem, which is mainly 5g. I should be able to do that as the account payer.

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8. ta1243+bG[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-29 20:26:10
>>NoGrav+z7
I wonder how it correlates to people living with parents into their 20s and 30s because they can't afford to move into their own places
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9. kulaha+nQ[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-29 21:34:07
>>NoGrav+5c
IMO it's a stronger desire to "do no wrong" than to "do right". The adult entertainment industry is rife with trafficking, drugs, assault, etc. - it wouldn't surprise me one bit to hear the youngest generations are swearing off it simply because they won't associate with that level of dangerous stuff? I'm just pulling things out of my behind here though. I could be totally off the mark.
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10. kulaha+AQ[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-29 21:34:54
>>ta1243+ZF
That's great, but unfortunately most parents don't know how to do that, and as I've read recently, tech literacy is going down in younger generations, not up.
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11. ta1243+GP1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-07-30 09:22:47
>>kulaha+AQ
ISPs and phone companies can provide it as a service, opt in (or opt out) on your account management page, job done
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