In fact the Chinese entities are even less likely to share your secrets to your governement than their best friends at Google
Even if we interact with your rhetoric[1] at face value, there is a big difference between data going to your own elected government versus that of a foreign adversary.
It should be a crime for Google as well.
"Whataboutism" is a logical fallacy.
"What about Google" is not a logical continuation of this discussion
But a foreign government is limited to what it can do to you if you are not a very high-value target.
So I try as much as possible to use software and services from a non-friendly government because this is the highest guarantee that my data will not be used against me in the future.
And since we can all agree that any data that is collected will end up with the government some way or another. Using forging software is the only real guarantee.
Unless the software is open source and its server is self-hosted, it should be considered Spyware.