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1. Scubab+(OP)[view] [source] 2023-06-12 23:00:28
The flip side of blowing up your life regularly like this, is you are throwing away momentum you may have accumulated in your current life.
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2. valzam+t1[view] [source] 2023-06-12 23:08:18
>>Scubab+(OP)
This is particularly true when it comes to your place of residence. Moving constantly means you never "lock in" a level of expenses and will always have to earn more to keep up with inflation of housing prices (be it rent or purchase price). At least in Europe it is common to have indefinite rental contracts with a clause saying they can never raise the rent more than LOW_SINGLE_DIGIT% per year or even only for 10 years and not after.
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3. dylkil+U1[view] [source] 2023-06-12 23:10:46
>>Scubab+(OP)
momentum going down is usually what makes people unhappy, blowing up your life up kicks momentum in a new direction
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4. davidw+h5[view] [source] 2023-06-12 23:29:28
>>Scubab+(OP)
Feels a bit like a 'hill climbing algorithm'. Sometimes staying in the same place and climbing the hill works out well - but sometimes a big jump can move you to a bigger hill.
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5. Scubab+be[view] [source] [discussion] 2023-06-13 00:34:11
>>dylkil+U1
I disagree. Lost momentum is lost. Blowing up your life means you start from a low state, and have to start all over again.

It absolutely can be positive. But it is not at all guaranteed.

Sometime it all works out. And, sometimes, you throw away what seems to be “bad” in the moment, and find yourself much worse off with your new choice.

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6. fy20+sk[view] [source] [discussion] 2023-06-13 01:16:46
>>valzam+t1
That's only true in specific parts of Europe. Where I am renting is like the wild west. Last year a friend's landlord put up their rent by €100, after 2 months of their 1 year contract...

But your point still stands, here you would typically buy a property when you get stable in life, locking in a monthly payment with a mortgage. Towards the end of the mortgage the payments will feel a lot more affordable due to inflation and / or a higher salary from career growth. If you keep moving to different places that's going to be complicated.

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7. hirvi7+Zo[view] [source] [discussion] 2023-06-13 01:52:52
>>Scubab+be
I hope to blow my life up in a few within a the year sometime. Maybe not as drastic as others, but my life has been at a pretty low state. Finally have managed to crawl myself out of a nasty burnout/depressive period, and things are finally starting to work out. In the end, I do not have much to lose that I haven't lost already. I have no momentum or anything really.

What's the saying?

"When you hit rock bottom there is no where to go but up."

I guess my whole point is that blowing up one's life isn't always blowing up a "good life" so to speak.

8. listen+Or[view] [source] 2023-06-13 02:17:25
>>Scubab+(OP)
The flip side? No, that's the whole point.
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9. nmfish+RO[view] [source] [discussion] 2023-06-13 05:15:18
>>valzam+t1
On the other hand, moving cities/countries/continents for a salary boost can compound over your career and be probably the best financial decision you'll ever make.

I think it all comes down to what you want in life. Some people are happy with making their nest early and switching to cruise control. Others want to get out and experience as much of the world as they can. It's trite, but different strokes and all that.

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10. ilyt+ab1[view] [source] [discussion] 2023-06-13 08:08:01
>>dylkil+U1
Nope, it just changes direction. It can be entirely for worse
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