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1. Zephyr+(OP)[view] [source] 2021-03-29 06:02:07
This is a fantasy. For every person who thinks you're being reasonable, it's highly likely there's another one who takes offense of some kind.

Even if only 5-10% of people took offense, it's not worth it to speak your mind.

replies(1): >>matkon+E9
2. matkon+E9[view] [source] 2021-03-29 08:03:40
>>Zephyr+(OP)
Even if 0.1% of people will try to start witch hunt it is still better to avoid answering.
replies(1): >>prawn+0A
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3. prawn+0A[view] [source] [discussion] 2021-03-29 12:07:21
>>matkon+E9
This reminds me of the idea of physical risk for someone with a lifespan of a 1,000 years. If you're 60 with an average lifespan of 70, your actions are risking 10 years of life. If you're 60 with a potential lifespan of 1,000 years, you're effectively risking everything and might be inclined to be more risk averse.

When public discourse magnifies the risk of your comments, you'll tend to be risk averse also. Once upon a time, your opinion would be spoken almost all the time, and perhaps put in a letter rarely. The effort for anyone to raise hell over a minor quibble would involve spreading the word, and doing so enough to find the rare people with a tendency to join you. Go back decades and that is infinitely less likely.

Now, chances are your comment is in writing or recorded, and even if it isn't, the quibbler can broadcast their version of events to increasingly wider circles in seconds, at no cost and with virtually no effort.

I delete half of the comments I start writing online, thinking "What's the point? At best, one person appreciates it. At worst, thousands want to argue."

replies(1): >>saagar+RO6
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4. saagar+RO6[view] [source] [discussion] 2021-03-31 07:17:43
>>prawn+0A
This is why 20-somethings are extraordinarily risk-averse ;)
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5. prawn+7P6[view] [source] [discussion] 2021-03-31 07:21:21
>>saagar+RO6
Yeah, that's often raised in the hypothetical. Typically, older people with the least remaining life to risk are the least rash with their decision making!
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