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1. phkahl+(OP)[view] [source] 2021-03-28 20:28:48
That's a nice thought, and might work if the person can articulate the differences well enough. But the entire point of the article is that no matter the argument or ability to make it, there is a fear that the woman might claim sexism simply because he suggested she step out of the CEO role and let the other person (a man) have it (reasons be damned). Even if everything was fine among those 3 people, someone else might take to twitter and frame it as sexist - especially if the advice was taken.
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2. igorkr+W1[view] [source] 2021-03-28 20:40:54
>>phkahl+(OP)
And I am calling that fear bullshit. If you cannot articulate the differences, then why are you making the suggestion? A "gut feeling"? Well, then that might be sexist and deserve being called out as BS. And if everything was fine between those 3 people...just clarify things on twitter?

The fear of a hypothetical "someone" taking something "totally reasonable" out of context is, in my experience, held mainly by people who have a private definition of "totally reasonable" not held by the majority and who'd like to continue holding it without consequences.

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3. KODeKa+ii[view] [source] [discussion] 2021-03-28 22:27:09
>>igorkr+W1
You might want a little self-reflection about that last sentence and how it paints you as precisely the sort of person that others are rightfully worried about.
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