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> A friend was asked out on dates, unsolicited, multiple times by coworkers.

It's a little ambiguous in how this is worded whether the same person asked multiple times, or if it was multiple people each asking once. BUT in the former case especially, if you get turned down for a date please respect the other's wishes and do not keep trying, especially at work. It's not cute or charming, it's just disrespectful.

>>ambiva+(OP)
In turning down someone, make sure to make it clear that you don't want to go out with them. "I'm sorry, I don't date co-workers" or "I'm sorry, I'm not interested" or something similar. If you say, "I'm sorry, I'm busy that night," you may very well get asked again. If you don't make it clear and you get asked again, it may happen again until you make it clear. After the third or fourth time, maybe someone will get the hint; but, it's always better to jus be clear about it.