It would seem that in your view, we should be discussing all things at all times due to this "oppressor" mindset.
This simply cannot be true.
If you disagree with that, be explicit about exactly what part.
This prevents any reasonable discourse so is unlikely to be successful, no matter how dogmatically or assertively you present your case. Others will simply perceive it as unreasonable, I suspect.
This doesn't mean that you can't still believe it to be true - it just means that others will not engage with the points you mention, and you'll then end up being more isolated and frustrated.