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>This was a revelation to me in my early-thirties

Have you considered that this had less to do with how you acted but more with your marked value increasing and there's decreasing?

>>akimbo+(OP)
Maybe its that the social norms around sex are that women do not enjoy it and men have to force it on them.

The harm of that is that women feel shame for enjoying it and men feel shame for wanting it.

The social norms are garbage, at some point in life you figure it out by experience...

>>akimbo+(OP)
Ah, yes, thanks - good to remember some folks think women stop having “value” at 30ish, and still, somehow, feel comfortable posting that publicly.

>>jmye+gK1
Interesting how you focused on that and not men only being interesting once they gained material value and women being forced to settle which is far more superficial

>>akimbo+7N2
I focused on the bullshit Andrew Tate-isms - there was no need, whatsoever, to engage with any part of your comment, thought process or person, beyond that.

>>jmye+gic
Andrew who? Sry 80/20 and co has been well established a decade before that boogieman