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1. epolan+(OP)[view] [source] 2025-12-14 21:45:26
Interesting example with some questionable couple dynamics.
replies(1): >>seizet+Yf
2. seizet+Yf[view] [source] 2025-12-14 23:31:23
>>epolan+(OP)
Looks really healthy to me. It’s unhealthy when a partner can’t recognize that they actually were at fault and try to change, but instead needs every fight to resolve with “we were both wrong”.
replies(1): >>btilly+uu
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3. btilly+uu[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-15 01:22:05
>>seizet+Yf
To add color, this is an interaction that started with one person being stressed. Expecting ideal behavior out of a stressed person is unreasonable.
replies(1): >>IAmBro+JD2
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4. IAmBro+JD2[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-15 17:25:43
>>btilly+uu
You sound like a terrific Significant Other: willing to look inwards to see how you contributed to the problems the couple is having, and working to improve in the future.
replies(1): >>btilly+mJ2
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5. btilly+mJ2[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-15 17:47:29
>>IAmBro+JD2
Thank you. That's what I'm trying to be.

However I'm also a work in progress. I spent a long time being significantly less than terrific...

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