You don't want people paid for taking care of their children, but it's OK if other people are paid for taking care of their chidlren.
None of this makes sense. Especially not this false dichotomy that either you send your kids to daycare or they don't learn to interact with others early.
We should not subsidize stay at home moms or dad's because it's bad for society, if they can afford to do it or stretch their economy to do it for other reasons it's their bad choice, and we allow free choice even if it's bad, that's why cigarettes are still allowed.
I don't know who to look up, but if you have some suggestions I could look it up through ratsit.se