now we essentially have sleep++ and no option to set it back to vanilla sleep.
When I put a machine into standby, I want it to go in a standby state, and then stay there until I explicitly wake it -- not keep doing whatever background tasks the OS developers, app developers, or whatever other third parties think they need to keep doing.
For most people these days the primary device is their phone, and so that is the model that modern laptops are trying to follow, as that is what most users will expect.
I thought this was a solved issue. How are all OSs suddenly so bad at this? I only really trust on and off anymore.