If I use human-related terminology as a shortcut, as some kind of macro to talk at a higher level/more efficiently about something I want to do that might be okay.
What is not okay is talking in a way that implies intent, for example.
Compare:
"The AI doesn't want to do that."
versus "The model doesn't do that with this prompt and all others we tried."
The latter way of talking is still high-level enough but avoids equating/confusing the name of a field with a sentient being.Whenever I hear people saying "an AI" I suggest they replace AI with "statistics" to make it obvious how problematic anthropomorphisms may have become:
*"The statistics doesn't want to do that."