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1. sherma+(OP)[view] [source] 2024-02-02 18:57:15
My general rule is sort of a variant of Godwin’s Law:

“The first person to tell their opponent ‘you shouldn’t be so sensitive’ forfeits the debate.”

There are of course exceptions. But obnoxious people think that every time they say something offensive or awful, the onus is on others to make allowances.

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2. narcin+V4[view] [source] 2024-02-02 19:23:30
>>sherma+(OP)
I have a similar rule: "The first person to tell their opponent 'your ideas are offensive' forfeits the debate".

I believe my rule prevents more bad arguments.

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3. sherma+In[view] [source] [discussion] 2024-02-02 20:49:17
>>narcin+V4
That rule is great in a monoculture but fails when good-faith participants are coming from widely differing perspectives and values. If it’s not a good faith discussion, nothing helps.

But I’m not actually trying to engineer a debate ruleset, I’m mostly pointing out how people try to get away with being assholes.

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