I think there's also a lack of acknowledgement over the difference in some people politely asking for something and believing that an open source piece of software isn't high quality or production ready if it doesn't provide those niceties and someone just saying "give me feature X or you're an asshole, work harder".
I think most people fall in the former camp, it's completely fine to politely ask for something, but you have to be okay if they refuse. The latter is just pure entitlement.