Hard is fine. The point is, taking VC money makes building the company (you wanted to build) straight up impossible.
Turns out building companies is very difficult. If the first thing you do is sell out, perhaps you don’t have what it takes.
What if you and the venture capitalists are on the same page and have the same goals?
Or what if you keep control, have a good money making plan and you don't ask for funding just to pay expenses and acquire unpaying users but use those funds for growth?