You might understand that it's a bad idea, but that makes you an outlier.
Let one communicate from a computer (or phone) with a username+password account, with people who use the service with phone number account.
This without the mechanism Whatsapp uses, where you can use it in a web browser, but it's still linked to your phone.
This is why it still has a stronghold as well…
Given the choice between SMS and a service that provides the same functionality is free, superior in most ways, borderless, etc. the choice to use whatsapp is obvious.
Can't say I've ever gotten any psycho responses from it though.