Post TL;DR: Blowing up your life can be a good idea for those who are relatively sane and feel stuck in a job, city, or relationship. People tend to resist change due to status quo bias, but breaking free from familiar pain can lead to personal growth and alignment with desires. Making major life changes, whether by choice or through external disruptions, can result in improved outcomes and happiness. While it may feel uncomfortable initially, the disequilibrium can motivate positive change, typically stabilizing within six months. There are no guarantees, but taking risks and embracing change can lead to a better life.