I guess it would be helpful to have a real example of the kind of thing you object to (in the case of gay characters). I'm having trouble understanding what it would look like in the context of an actual narrative, as I don't think I've ever come across anything like it myself.
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I don’t remember a specific example of gay, but I gave the example from Lost so that might help you understand the context of an actual narrative.