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1. midori+(OP)[view] [source] 2022-12-12 06:37:21
Seriously, have people here not used Nextdoor? Local communities are absolutely full of toxicity.
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2. sph+w9[view] [source] 2022-12-12 08:18:37
>>midori+(OP)
Nextdoor lives on the internet. People in real life tend to be less terrible when you talk with them face to face. Put them on the internet, it's easy being an inconsiderate imbecile.
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3. fragme+0b[view] [source] 2022-12-12 08:33:33
>>midori+(OP)
Have you considered moving? It very much depends on where you live. Sorry you live in such a toxic neighborhood. Other places are quaint and charming and have posts with cat photography and local honey bee honey sales and baby goats when it's that time of year. Other places get posts complaining about "those people" (for all sorts of different definitions of "those people", and each time you get to place a game of "is it casual racism or anti-republican sentiment", which quickly isn't fun. Living vicariously through my very rural friend's nextdoor is way better than being on my own urban neighborhoods'.
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4. midori+Lc[view] [source] [discussion] 2022-12-12 08:50:13
>>sph+w9
Putting them on a pseudo-anonymous web forum like Nextdoor shows what these people really think of you.
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5. sph+do[view] [source] [discussion] 2022-12-12 10:34:56
>>midori+Lc
I disagree. While I subscribe to the Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory, I do not believe the vast majority of people are awful. The current format of the internet fosters an unnatural way of behaving, but sit at a table with most people and they are able to disagree, or even get around to another viewpoint, pretty easily.

Sadly, I do think this view of mine of the Internet will die soon, as only the people that grew halfway during the Internet age are able to know: older people lack the finesse and the capacity to empathise with someone through text, younger people lack the knowledge that real life humans are capable of being decent, as most of their socialising is done through a screen now.

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6. midori+9X2[view] [source] [discussion] 2022-12-13 00:51:09
>>fragme+0b
>Have you considered moving? >Living vicariously through my very rural friend's nextdoor is way better than being on my own urban neighborhoods'.

It sounds like you're the one who needs to consider moving.

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7. midori+My3[view] [source] [discussion] 2022-12-13 05:54:13
>>sph+do
>While I subscribe to the Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory, I do not believe the vast majority of people are awful.

The vast majority? No, of course not. But a sizeable fraction are, and two things happen because of this: 1) they ruin most spaces when there aren't robust mechanism to keep their people out or their behavior regulated. Nextdoor has shown this, along with most unmoderated internet forums. 2) the fuckwads are frequently able to rile up others and get them to go along with their awful actions; we saw this in Nazi Germany for instance, and many other places throughout history.

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