My condolences to British people who held the Queen at high esteem. But frankly world is a bigger place than Britain and America. Not everyone from the British former colonies will appreciate the Queen. if they express the feelings about the monarchy in a respectful way; do you see an issue?
I believe I've answered your other question in a few places:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32772419
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32771874
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32772067
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32771818
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32770946
... as well as in the comment you're replying to (starting at "I'm not telling you guys to be royalists!"). If you read those comments and still have a question that isn't answered there, I'd be happy to take a crack at it.