Start by self-rating yourself on these (and maybe more) dimensions: "bossy", "dumb", "free-living", "gung-ho", "square", "low-key", "by-the-book", "grumpy", "proper", "encouraging", "enthusiastic", "worldly", "forceful", "well-informed", "influential", "innovative", "friendly". Register your self-model for the system/with yourself.
And then model the ideal self. Pick what attributes you want to embody. Let this program help you shift from the state you are in to the state you want to be. (The parallel here to, not quite a Kubernetes Controller/Operator, but an assistant to, to encourage forward iteration towards the desired result, is striking. Register intent, iterate towards outcome.)
Source: a TV interview with some screenshots, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9oabRxvjf9k