There are issues with women rights in many country. Blaming the west is a way to ignore them.
I will say it in a different way, WE ARE NOT YOUR ENEMY, but you are too blind not to realize that by yourself.
The enemies are roughly Salafia and Ikhwan. They are the ones with the hateful retoric. And they have a huge following.
This bad situation also predates western imperialism or Pax Americana.