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Differences in handshake sounds would give you some idea of the negotiated speed as others mentioned, but also a good idea of if the handshake was going to succeed. Sometimes you'd get a bad modem or bad line and the handshake would sound wrong and try several times and either not connect or connect at a very low bitrate; cutting that off early was useful.

Of course, in a single line household, sometimes you'd catch the line in use, and the speaker would confirm that vs no dialtone error. Ocassionally, you might also get glare --- picking up an incomming call before it rings, and listening in might help recover from that as well.

Speaker on while connected could be useful for monitoring for connection disturbances (and maybe forcing a lower speed on a reconnect) or call waiting beeps, but was usually too low signal to bother. Also, I had a phone that would click/chirp on call waiting even when on hook which was a lot more actionable.