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1. robbmo+(OP)[view] [source] 2021-03-29 03:13:00
Are they more receptive to feedback when you just launch straight into it? Or is there something different that you do to prime them to be receptive?
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2. fastba+E9[view] [source] 2021-03-29 05:15:19
>>robbmo+(OP)
As in it doesn't get that far. I've literally seen men say "would you mind if I give you some feedback" and that was received as a condescending thing to ask someone.

This is of course anecdotal, so I'm not trying to paint anyone with a broad brush. Just wanted to point out that in my experience, asking if you can give feedback/advice/etc isn't always well-received. I can't imagine unsolicited feedback would've been any better received in those situations.

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