This is a problem that extends far beyond the man to woman relationship. Intellectual mindshare is being locked up due to cancel culture and the fear that unpopular ideas - whether objectively true or not - or even just poor wording could be weaponized and used to attack the person expressing them.
If you think this isn't happening, I challenge you to think of a single unpopular thing that you believe and ask yourself if you'd be comfortable expressing that attached to your real name in a permanently recorded medium.