I wouldn’t say this publicly and am saying it here due to a reasonable amount of anonymity (that’s a symptom of the problem).
There are behaviours that are universally toxic and destructive. Sexual abuse, sexual objectification, violence, etc.
These are all behaviours, generally, more commonly found in males. I think a lot of males have understood this and over corrected. This over correction “may” now be going too far.
Little is said about toxic behaviour more commonly associated with women:
Gaslighting, manipulation through victimisation, sexual suggestion for preferential treatment, gossiping, etc.
I think education needs to start early in school about what’s not acceptable.
I have a feeling that’s going to start happening once society realises that focusing only on male behaviour is also to the detriment of women.
It has the appearance of symmetry but I think the first is correct and the second is a very hearty [citation needed] as I have experienced just as much gaslighting and gossip from men as women.
It's well documented that most cases of aggressive sexual violence are men. Is it equally well documented that most gossips are women?