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1. christ+(OP)[view] [source] 2021-03-28 22:45:51
“One worrying trend I’ve observed among my male investor friends is that they’re much more wary of giving candid advice to women founders than they used to be. They are afraid of saying anything that a female founder might misinterpret as sexism. So, when giving feedback to a woman they don’t know well enough to trust, they talk with less candor than they would with a male founder.¹ When this happens, women are missing out on potentially valuable advice.”

Oh. My. God. Just ask the person if they want your advice.

It’s the same in the (presumably male-dominated) workplace as it is in anywhere, such as giving unsolicited advice to someone at the (usually male-dominated) rock gym.

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2. ghicul+13[view] [source] 2021-03-28 23:06:51
>>christ+(OP)
Thankfully nobody has had an angry Twitter mob come after them for beta spraying... yet.
3. retsib+15[view] [source] 2021-03-28 23:23:23
>>christ+(OP)
> Oh. My. God. Just ask the person if they want your advice.

I'm admittedly a bit socially inept, but isn't it obviously not this simple? Someone saying they want honest feedback is no guarantee that they will take it well.

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