An example:
- I run into a white friend and call him Dave (another white guy I know), when his name is Mark. It happens, I apologize as I'm terrible with names.
- I run into a black friend and call him Dave (another black guy I know), when his name is Mark. It happens, I apologize as I'm terrible with names.
In the 2nd instance, you can guarantee someone will accuse me of bring racist.
Basically, people make mistakes and say rude things all the time. But throw race in there and suddenly everything is viewed in the worst possible light.
Person A has illiberal views on race but is very good at recognizing black people's faces.
Person B has liberal views on race but is very bad at recognizing black people's faces.
From your point of view: Person A is not apparently racist and person B is a confirmed racist!
This is a good example of how mistaken the illiberal left has become on these issues.