Most of the problem lies in Database. Rails may not be best architecture for scale. But I doubt you could even get 100x difference if the bottleneck is in Database.
I don't know any large, JVM based WebSite in large scale on top of my head, but I consider Stackoverflow, written in ASP.NET to be one of the best and most optimised site. Near 700M Pageview per month, with 10 Front End Servers. At peak it does close to 5000 RPS, Cookpad does 15,000 RPS with 300 Rails Server. But the SO servers are at least twice as powerful, so that scale is like 500 RPS / Server to 100RPS / Server. 5x Difference.