>>bloak+(OP)
My kid sister is a critical care-trauma surgeon. One of her (least) favourite stories when she worked in the South was when she took care of a rather complex ICU case. At the end of it the patient said, "I just want you to know that you were great, but I never saw the doctor once."
My sister is rarely at a loss for words but I'm not sure _she_ even knew what to say to that.
>>err4nt+Sc
That could be relevant. Also the word "actor", with the same ending, is sometimes (by some newspapers, for example) reserved for men.
Sometimes a similar trick anecdote is told about a "German". There's a suspicion that the ending "man" in "German" primes the listener to imagine a man.