As a German I can (mostly) speak my mind about men vs women, the only minefield there is IMO (remotely) Nazi-related stuff, e.g., try to criticize Israel foreign policy or mass immigration.
If you're a technically-minded woman, who's more interested in her career than being a wet-nurse, you've got problems no matter where you're living.
Yeah, you don't really have free speech if you can't even criticize a domestic policy like immigration.
They convinced you that it is Nazi to oppose the government's stance. Soon you will be Nazi for preferring bacon in your sandwiches or having preferences in dating.