Other people apparently don't have this feeling at all. Maybe I shouldn't have been surprised by this, but I've definitely been caught off guard by it.
ever had a client second guess you by replying you a screenshot from GPT?
ever asked anything in a public group only to have a complete moron replying you with a screenshot from GPT or - at least a bit of effor there - a copy/paste of the wall of text?
no, people have no shame. they have a need for a little bit of (borrowed) self importance and validation.
Which is why i applaud every code of conduct that has public ridicule as punishment for wasting everybody's time
delicate feelers is like octopus arms
Still, I meant that in the other direction: not request, but a gift/favor. "Guess culture" would be going out of your way to make the gift valuable for the receiver - matching what they need, and not generating extra burden. "Ask culture" would be like doing whatever's easiest that matches the explicit requirements, and throwing it over the fence.