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1. comrad+C6[view] [source] 2026-01-22 12:42:22
>>clowes+(OP)
35. Women can be as horny and lonely as men and all you need to do is talk to them to meet them.

This was a revelation to me in my early-thirties.

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2. akimbo+Zb[view] [source] 2026-01-22 13:15:46
>>comrad+C6
>This was a revelation to me in my early-thirties

Have you considered that this had less to do with how you acted but more with your marked value increasing and there's decreasing?

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3. bluefl+Hd[view] [source] 2026-01-22 13:24:25
>>akimbo+Zb
Maybe its that the social norms around sex are that women do not enjoy it and men have to force it on them.

The harm of that is that women feel shame for enjoying it and men feel shame for wanting it.

The social norms are garbage, at some point in life you figure it out by experience...

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