Honest question: What's the issue with DHH here? What did he do that caused them to pull support because he was platformed at RailsConf?
https://tekin.co.uk/2025/09/the-ruby-community-has-a-dhh-pro...
- do not turn away from debate - do not turn to or espouse violence[1] - and their contributions were of merit
Since DHH has done none of that then the answer is "yes, it's okay to put him on a stage to talk about tech".
[1] I thank Karl Popper for showing the way here with his Paradox of tolerance.
[2] Bob was the master of self-deprecating jokes, I hope he would appreciate that one.