In this case, it doesn't sound like they're reverting it because of overall breakage, but rather because it breaks the tool that would otherwise be used to control TLS 1.3 trials and other configuration. Firefox had a similar issue, where they temporarily used more conservative settings for their updater than for the browser itself, to ensure that people could always obtain updates that might improve the situation.
Good grief! From David Benjamin's final comment:
Note these issues are always bugs in the middlebox products. TLS version negotiation is backwards compatible, so a correctly-implemented TLS-terminating proxy should not require changes to work in a TLS-1.3-capable ecosystem. It can simply speak TLS 1.2 at both client <-> proxy and proxy <-> server TLS connections. That these products broke is an indication of defects in their TLS implementations.
It's understandable that I've never heard of BlueCoat: clearly this product's success is based more on selling to executives than on quality, and it has been some time since I worked in an organization that had executives to sell to.
https://jhalderm.com/pub/papers/interception-ndss17.pdf
How do you fix this when you're naught but a humble employee? Well, a friend of mine worked at a fairly large tech company where a salesguy for these boxes had convinced the CTO they had to have them. Every tech-person "on the floor" hated the idea, so before the boxes were installed they conspired on their free time to write some scripts that ran lots of legitimate HTTPS traffic, effectively DDOSing the boxes and bringing the company's internet to a crawl for the day, like Google would take ten seconds to open. Then obviously everyone (including the non-tech people) started calling the IT helpdesk complaining that the internet was broken. MITM box salesguy then had to come up with a revised solution, costing 20x more than his first offer, and that was the end of that.
If you already are suffering under MITM boxes, a similar strategy with a slow ramp-up in traffic might work.
Incidentally, "Blue Coat ProxySG 6642" was the only middlebox to get an "A" from the study referenced above. Apparently they didn't test for 1.3...
Everything you listed is information that the company already has access to. Why isn't it sufficient for there to be access controls by policy, the same way the company protects other sensitive information from unauthorized acres within the company?