So what I am saying is that after you created D', it is true, that you need to run `rebase --onto` in git, while it is automatic in jj. But I think updating feature2 and feature3 is only really necessary to do now, when you want to change something in G-J also. If you don't and it wouldn't cause merge conflicts at all (logical and physical) then you could also just do this when you work on top of H or J the next time, so it wouldn't actually cause any more work in git compared to JJ.
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The other thing I am saying is that I don't really let features depend on each other, I let them specify the API between them first and then develop them independently. Otherwise it is easy to violate boundaries. So the ideal is that any of G,H and I,J works with D,E,F and vice versa. Of course that is tangential and it doesn't always work that way.