To me this reads as a form of misdirection, intentional or not. A monopolist has little reason to care about downstream effects, since customers have nowhere else to turn. Framing this as roll your own versus Cloudflare rather than as a monoculture CDN environment versus a diverse CDN ecosystem feels off.
That said, the core problem is not the monopoly itself but its enablers, the collective impulse to align with whatever the group is already doing, the desire to belong and appear to act the "right way", meaning in the way everyone else behaves. There are a gazillion ways of doing CDN, why are we not doing them? Why the focus on one single dominant player?
I don’t the answer to the all questions. But here I think it is just a way to avoid responsibility. If someone choses CDN “number 3” and it goes down, business people *might* put a blame on this person for not choosing “the best”. I am not saying it is a right approach, I just seen it happens too many times.