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1. aaronb+(OP)[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:13:33
It means that the action we should take in response to this article is "building more dorms with singles" rather than "we need to rethink the way that we are making accommodations for disabilities in educational contexts".

That seems like an important distinction, and makes the rest of the article (which focuses on educational accommodations) look mistaken.

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2. IgorPa+B3[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:28:03
>>aaronb+(OP)
I worked in residential life while in college and can tell you that placing freshmen in singles is a horrible idea. It leads to isolation and lets mental health issues fester. Some need it but you do not want to place anyone who doesn’t into a room alone especially in their first year.
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3. tomrod+l5[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:35:55
>>IgorPa+B3
Meh. I think you're overstating it. To meet your anecdata, I had both the first college year, and single > double by a large margin.
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4. shetay+P5[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:38:32
>>IgorPa+B3
I agree in that freshmen should get the "experience" at least once. However, the way Stanford has arranged housing has meant that a good number of students will not live in a single for any of their 4 years.
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5. Onawa+T7[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:49:13
>>tomrod+l5
It depends on the person. I lived alone in my last year of undergrad and it sent me into a deep depression. I figured out that living alone was too much isolation for me and moved back in with a roommate. That helped to pull me out of my depression and be able to finish my degree.
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6. shetay+08[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:49:44
>>aaronb+(OP)
True, but unfortunately the response from Stanford has been to introduce triple and quad rooms ;)

This is not entirely their fault. Stanford is subject to Santa Clara County building regulations, and those tend not to be friendly to large university developments (or any large developments for that matter).

I vaguely recall the recent Escondido Graduate Village Residences (EVGR) construction taking a while to get through the regulatory pipeline.

The true underlying issue here is just that there is not enough quality housing for the number of students Stanford admits.

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7. iso163+O8[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:53:15
>>IgorPa+B3
Yet here in the UK it's perfectly normal. When I went to uni in 2000 in our halls there were 15 rooms per floor ber block, 2 of which were twins and 13 were single.

The people in the twins were not happy - they hadn't asked for them.

I knew one person who dropped out in the first 3 months (for mental purposes), and that was someone who shared a room.

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8. michae+ja[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:00:04
>>IgorPa+B3
Before you went to college, did you have a bedroom to yourself in your parents' home?
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9. Alexan+Gl[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 22:00:20
>>michae+ja
Ridiculous comparison. First, neither I nor anyone I know had a room where we could lock our parents out. Second, your parents actually care about you and if you spent 24+ hours in there without coming out they'd check on you (probably much sooner actually). No such luck in a dorm.
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10. IgorPa+Az[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 23:14:22
>>tomrod+l5
I would not classify it as anecdata. This was research backed policy adopted by most US universities. Residential life and the Dean of Students office are usually doing a lot to cooperate with other universities. This part of US colleges is not competing with each other so they routinely share data, go to conferences together multiple times a year, and res. life directors move from college to college every few years so they all know each other incredibly well.

The point is that everyone who gets a single is super happy about it the same way that a drug addict is always happy when they get their drug of choice for free: of course it’s great. Of course it isn’t the best thing for you in the long run. I say this as someone who hated being in a double my first year and spent the next three in a single.

As far as I am concerned having apartments of 4-8 students where each has their own small room but shares a common space is ideal. But usually this is reserved for sophomore year and later.

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11. duskdo+y71[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 03:49:07
>>Onawa+T7
I don't think people advocating for more single rooms would say that no multi-occupancy rooms should exist for people who do want them.
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12. LtWorf+mi1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 06:17:22
>>IgorPa+B3
Lol, what an uniquely USA point of view.
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13. AngryD+ou6[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-06 22:49:58
>>IgorPa+B3
I can't say I agree since I seen many people struggling with being forced into close quarters with a complete stranger that they might have nothing in common with or actively dislike and have nowhere truly private.

Maybe its fine for many extroverts, but forcing an introvert into a room with others is a great way to drive many people absolutely mental.

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