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1. lostms+(OP)[view] [source] 2025-12-04 19:10:53
I suppose cheating to get housing benefits is less of a dumpster fuck vs cheating to get ahead of other people in education.
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2. margal+52[view] [source] 2025-12-04 19:24:16
>>lostms+(OP)
The word "cheating" is loaded with a lot of values and judgement that I think makes it inappropriate to use the way you did.

There's a point where it's not immoral to leverage systems available to you to land yourself in a better situation. Avoiding increasingly-overcrowded housing situations is I think one of them.

If Stanford's standards for these housing waivers are sufficiently broad that 38% of their students quality, isn't that a problem with Stanford's definitions, not with "cheating"?

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3. MangoT+i2[view] [source] 2025-12-04 19:25:06
>>lostms+(OP)
I suppose stanford does optimize for cheating, but this still seems excessive
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4. ahmene+p3[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:29:49
>>margal+52
In the culture I grew up in, this was considered cheating.
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5. delich+h4[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:34:07
>>ahmene+p3
A culture that honored truth telling and integrity. Was that long ago or far away?
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6. Cpoll+V4[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:37:09
>>margal+52
This is tragedy of the commons exactly. Whether it's moral depends entirely on the ethical theory you subscribe to.

> a problem with Stanford's definitions

Only if students aren't lying on their application.

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7. swatco+45[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:37:46
>>margal+52
> There's a point where it's not immoral to leverage systems available to you to land yourself in a better situation.

That sounds loaded with a lot of value judgment. I don't think it's inappropriate for you to suggest it, but I think you'll find that a lot of people who value equitability, collaboration, communalism, modesty, earnestness, or conservation of resources might not share that perspective with you.

It turns out that people just disagree about values and are going to weigh judgment on others based on what they believe. You don't have to share their values, but you do kind of just need to be able to accept that judgment as theirs when you do things they malign.

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8. lostms+K5[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:40:46
>>margal+52
> The word "cheating" is loaded with a lot of values and judgement that I think makes it inappropriate to use the way you did.

I'm glad you had no problem with "dumpster fuck".

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9. ground+a6[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:42:10
>>margal+52
The direct result of this thinking is that people who need the accommodation face difficulty in getting it.

You don’t have to return your shopping cart. You don’t have to donate to the collection plate. You don’t have to give a coworker recognition.

But when everyone has an adversarial “get mine” attitude the systems have to be changed. Instead of assuming good intent they have to enforce it. Enforcement is very expensive and very unpleasant. (For example, maybe you need to rent the shopping cart.)

Unfortunately enforcement is a self fulfilling cycle. When people see others cheating they feel they need to cheat just to not be left behind.

You may be from a culture where this is the norm. Reflect on its impact and how we would really like to avoid this.

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10. sherma+07[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:45:46
>>delich+h4
"culture i grew up in" could easily mean "what my parents/older relatives told me they did, when they told me to be like them."

Once you grow up, you realize your parents were human, made self-interested decisions, and then told themselves stories that made their actions sound principled. Some more than others, of course.

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11. jay_ky+B9[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:56:34
>>margal+52
If you lie (or exaggerate) about a disability and claim a benefit, you could be denying somebody with more serious disabilities getting the help they need.
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12. iepath+H9[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:56:56
>>margal+52
I agree with you that cheating is a loaded word, but the question at the end here that the rules or standards enable users to work around it therefore it's not cheating is a bad semantic argument. We can use the exact same argument to excuse every kind of rule breaking that people do. If a hacker drains a billion dollars out of a smart contract, then they literally were only able to do so because the coded rules of the smart contract itself enabled it through whatever flaw the hacker identified. That doesn't make it less illegal or not cheating for the hacker. It feels like victim blaming to point the finger at the institution being exploited or people who get hacked and say its their problem not the individuals intentionally exploiting them.
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13. JumpCr+I9[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:56:59
>>margal+52
> a point where it's not immoral to leverage systems available to you to land yourself in a better situation

That point is probably behind someone at Stanford.

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14. shadow+6a[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:58:17
>>ground+a6
> You don’t have to donate to the collection plate

Hey, if they stop using the money I donate to advertise that my neighbors are abominations in the eyes of God they can have my money again.

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15. guelo+9a[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:58:32
>>swatco+45
What is the honorable value that leads to "I'll get mine screw everybody else"?
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16. inglor+ba[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 19:58:46
>>margal+52
This attitude was one of the things that collapsed the former Eastern Bloc. "He who does not steal is stealing from his own family."
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17. IAmBro+Ka[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:00:47
>>sherma+07
I'll skip the "my parents" part, because I'm an old, but ... NO ONE had independent housing their Freshman year in college at my hometown uni, unless they had prior residency in the area (were commuting from home).

So, yeah: that morality did exist, and not just in fables.

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18. bee_ri+0b[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:02:32
>>lostms+(OP)
In the context of academics I’d call it manipulating, exploiting or scamming the housing system, rather than cheating. Just because academic cheating is the center-of-gravity for this type of conversation, and, IMO, a much much bigger deal.

If someone says they cheated in school, the first thing that pops into your head probably isn’t that they might have gotten a single dorm room, right?

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19. josefr+Nb[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:05:07
>>MangoT+i2
I use the word "cheating" like I use the word "hacking." The connotation can be either good or bad or contextually. You are defeating a system. The intent of the cheater/hacker is where we get into moral judgements. (This is a great sub-thread.)
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20. zeroCa+fc[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:07:47
>>ground+a6
The problem is that people simply have no investment in a community anymore. This is a direct consequence of globalization and capitalism. Travel to a foreign land, exploit the locals, and return home. Westerners are just now realizing that they're on the receiving end of it now.
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21. arolih+kc[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:08:26
>>margal+52
The problem is the promotion of values and behaviors that plague a low-trust society. I think making excuses for it is truly inappropriate and immoral.
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22. socalg+mc[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:08:33
>>swatco+45
I live in liberal cities. Nearly every car drive and bicycle rider has the attitude "F everyone else, I'm going to break every law if I find it inconvenient to myself. Who cares if it affects others"

This is not in alignment with "equitability, collaboration, communalism, modesty, earnestness, or conservation of resources"

People claim those values but rarely actually follow them.

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23. Rachel+Vc[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:11:34
>>MangoT+i2
Sadly, society also optimizes for cheating. Meritocracy is a myth.

In many ways Stanford is preparing students for the real world by encouraging cheating.

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24. only-o+dd[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:12:37
>>bee_ri+0b
This whole comment thread has been a crazy way to find out the ways people justify immoral behavior to themselves.
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25. seizet+hd[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:12:56
>>lostms+(OP)
I suppose so, but nonetheless it still likely harms the rest of the students who are honest by raising the price of housing for all students.
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26. only-o+jd[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:13:02
>>Rachel+Vc
This is what it comes down to
27. aaronb+rd[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:13:33
>>lostms+(OP)
It means that the action we should take in response to this article is "building more dorms with singles" rather than "we need to rethink the way that we are making accommodations for disabilities in educational contexts".

That seems like an important distinction, and makes the rest of the article (which focuses on educational accommodations) look mistaken.

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28. Beetle+Wd[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:15:44
>>bee_ri+0b
> If someone says they cheated in school, the first thing that pops into your head probably isn’t that they might have gotten a single dorm room, right?

It isn't, but if I'm on the hiring end and I know you play games like this, I'm not hiring you. I can work with less competent folks much better.

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29. femiag+Yd[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:15:46
>>only-o+dd
This kind of minor fraud is completely normalized within middle and upper classes. It's half the way many kids end up at these schools in the first place, thinking of the "pay-to-play" scandal at USC a while back.
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30. nextos+5e[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:16:11
>>MangoT+i2
I reviewed incoming applications during one Oxbridge academic application cycle. I raised some serious concerns, nobody listened, and therefore I refuse to take part on that any longer. Basically, lots of students are pretending to be disabled to enhance their chances with applications that are not particularly outstanding, taking spots from truly disabled students.

All it takes is a lack of principles, exaggerating a bit, and getting a letter from a doctor. Imagine you have poor eyesight requiring a substantial correction, but you can still drive. That's not a disability. Now, if you create a compelling story inflating how this had an adverse impact on your education and get support letters, you might successfully cheat the system.

I have seen several such cases. The admissions system is not effectively dealing with this type of fraud. In my opinion, a more serious audit-based system is necessary. Applicants that claim to be disabled but that are not recognized as such by the Government should go through some extra checks.

Otherwise, we end up in the current situation where truly disabled students are extremely rare, but we have a large corpus of unscrupulous little Machiavelli, which is also worrying on its own sake.

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31. outsid+be[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:16:29
>>lostms+(OP)
I mean, they watch our president, who got a JET for god knows what, and after seeing that, why shouldn't they grab for the bag?
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32. Beetle+ge[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:16:54
>>margal+52
While on the one hand I get where you're coming from, on the other hand I simply say "One does not have to go to Stanford."
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33. only-o+oe[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:17:24
>>femiag+Yd
So it’s funny, I grew up upper middle class with an extremely severe morality taught to me re: this kind of thing — integrity, etc. My entire adult life has been a lesson in how that’s a maladaptive trait in America in 2025.
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34. echelo+ve[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:17:49
>>seizet+hd
The diploma or credentials should be marked with the conditions of admission. That would prevent abuse from those who don't or shouldn't qualify for special admission conditions.
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35. Beetle+Pe[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:19:05
>>IAmBro+Ka
I went to a mediocre undergrad, and a top 5 school for grad. The difference in morals was quite notable, and cheating was much more prevalent in the latter (not just in classes, but for things like this as well).
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36. afavou+hf[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:21:07
>>only-o+oe
That has been one of the underpinning lessons of Trump's America to me. That playing by the rules and doing the right thing just makes me a sucker. Once a critical mass of people start to feel that way (if they don't already) it'll have a devastating effect on society.

(when I say "Trump's America" I don't directly mean Trump himself, though he's certainly a prominent example of it. It feels like it's everywhere. One of the first times I really noticed it was the Netflix show "Inventing Anna". A dramatization of the real life story of a scammer, Anna Sorokin. Netflix paid her $320,000 for her story. She led a life of crime and successfully profited from it. Now she's been on Dancing with the Stars, essentially she's been allowed to become the celebrity she pretended to be.)

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37. nradov+Kf[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:23:13
>>inglor+ba
Stealing from work was so normalized in the former USSR that it wasn't even considered stealing, just "carrying out". Jobs in meatpacking facilities were highly desired because even though nominal wages were low, workers could make so much more by selling on the black market. The entire system was rotten from top to bottom.
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38. crooke+Dg[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:26:37
>>echelo+ve
...and punish those who genuinely develop or suffer from some new condition after admittal.
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39. saalwe+Mg[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:27:25
>>afavou+hf
"It's always been this way" and "everyone does it" are what bad people say to justify themselves.
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40. IgorPa+2h[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:28:03
>>aaronb+rd
I worked in residential life while in college and can tell you that placing freshmen in singles is a horrible idea. It leads to isolation and lets mental health issues fester. Some need it but you do not want to place anyone who doesn’t into a room alone especially in their first year.
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41. watwut+bh[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:28:33
>>afavou+hf
Donald Trump won twice. Republican party is mostly cheering everything he does. Ho won by lying a lot. Media mostly sanewashed it. Meanwhile, GOP complained they did not sanewashed it enough.

HN itself and startup culture celebrate breaking the rules and laws to earn money. It is ok to break the law if you are rich enough. People here were defending gambling apps despite all the shady stuff they do just a few weeks ago.

The white collar crime was barely prosecuted before, now the DOJ is loosing even the ability to prosecute it. So, I think the effect you worry about already happened, long time ago.

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42. ahtihn+Fh[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:31:12
>>nextos+5e
> Imagine you have poor eyesight requiring a substantial correction, but you can still drive. That's not a disability

It absolutely is a disability! The fact that it's easy to deal with it doesn't change that fact.

I would not find it credible that it has a real impact on education though.

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43. trollb+zi[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:35:14
>>Rachel+Vc
Or Stanford is influential enough that it creates the future new world, which now will have far more cheating.
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44. tomrod+Mi[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:35:55
>>IgorPa+2h
Meh. I think you're overstating it. To meet your anecdata, I had both the first college year, and single > double by a large margin.
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45. shetay+gj[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:38:32
>>IgorPa+2h
I agree in that freshmen should get the "experience" at least once. However, the way Stanford has arranged housing has meant that a good number of students will not live in a single for any of their 4 years.
46. Aurorn+Ck[view] [source] 2025-12-04 20:45:09
>>lostms+(OP)
Cheating to get limited housing benefits starves those limited resources from truly disabled students who actually need them.

Also, there are academic components to disability cheating. As the article notes, registering for a disability at some of these universities grants you additional time to take tests.

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47. Onawa+kl[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:49:13
>>tomrod+Mi
It depends on the person. I lived alone in my last year of undergrad and it sent me into a deep depression. I figured out that living alone was too much isolation for me and moved back in with a roommate. That helped to pull me out of my depression and be able to finish my degree.
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48. shetay+rl[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:49:44
>>aaronb+rd
True, but unfortunately the response from Stanford has been to introduce triple and quad rooms ;)

This is not entirely their fault. Stanford is subject to Santa Clara County building regulations, and those tend not to be friendly to large university developments (or any large developments for that matter).

I vaguely recall the recent Escondido Graduate Village Residences (EVGR) construction taking a while to get through the regulatory pipeline.

The true underlying issue here is just that there is not enough quality housing for the number of students Stanford admits.

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49. reliab+Ol[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:51:25
>>nextos+5e
> The admissions system is not effectively dealing with this type of fraud.

If I was the university I would prefer these types of disabled students. Why not:

1. They are not really disabled, so I do not have to spend a lot of many for real accommodations

2. No need to deal with a higher chance (I’m guessing here) of academic difficulties

3. Basically, I hit disability metric without paying any cost!

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50. iso163+fm[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 20:53:15
>>IgorPa+2h
Yet here in the UK it's perfectly normal. When I went to uni in 2000 in our halls there were 15 rooms per floor ber block, 2 of which were twins and 13 were single.

The people in the twins were not happy - they hadn't asked for them.

I knew one person who dropped out in the first 3 months (for mental purposes), and that was someone who shared a room.

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51. michae+Kn[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:00:04
>>IgorPa+2h
Before you went to college, did you have a bedroom to yourself in your parents' home?
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52. mikkup+no[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:03:08
>>shadow+6a
The "collection plate" could just as well mean a panhandler's hat. The point is charitable giving, not christian specifically.
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53. margal+vt[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:29:00
>>swatco+45
I worded it in a way flexible to meet everyone's morals. Absent someone trying to performatively live a truly philosophically deontological life every person has some line where they will avail themselves of some available lever to remove some awful situation even if someone else might call it "cheating".

Some recent examples where large segments of the population did this are 1) with medical marijuana cards, which make weed legal to anyone willing to claim to have anxiety or difficulty sleeping, or 2) emotional support animals on airlines, where similarly one can claim anything to get a prescription that, if travelling with a pet, opts them out of the sometimes-fatal always-unpleasant cargo hold travel.

Plenty of people would call either of these cheating, but kind of like how "language is usage", so are morals in a society. If everyone is doing something that is available but "cheating", that society deems the result for people sufficiently valuable.

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54. margal+Nt[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:30:44
>>lostms+K5
Well, there's meaning and then there's personal style. I didn't want to cramp yours :-)
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55. giardi+gu[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:33:55
>>watwut+bh
This isn't about Trump, it's about a lack of morality among students at one of the (formerly) most prestigious universities in the US.
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56. nextos+Qw[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:48:34
>>ahtihn+Fh
That was my point, it is not a disability from an education POV, or at least I would not consider it as such without an independent audit.
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57. margal+My[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 21:58:55
>>ground+a6
I think you're reading more into what I said than what I intended.

I'm not endorsing the specific behavior, but I am pointing out that if there's a "cheating" lever anyone can pull to improve their own situation, it will get pulled if people think it's justified.

There's plenty that do get pulled and plenty that don't. In the US, SNAP fraud is sufficiently close to nonexistant that you can't tell the difference in benefits provided. But fraud surrounding lying about medical conditions to get a medical marijuana card is universal and accepted.

The people we're talking about here are teenagers that are told "if you have an ADHD diagnosis you can ask for and get your own room". The sort of systems thinking you are describing is not generally done by your average fresh high school graduate. This is therefore a Stanford problem.

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58. Alexan+7z[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 22:00:20
>>michae+Kn
Ridiculous comparison. First, neither I nor anyone I know had a room where we could lock our parents out. Second, your parents actually care about you and if you spent 24+ hours in there without coming out they'd check on you (probably much sooner actually). No such luck in a dorm.
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59. watwut+zz[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 22:02:51
>>giardi+gu
Compared to what Trump does, what his voters cheers on, what the whole his party defends, those students are still basically saints. It is profoundly hypocritical to look at who gets to win and lead, to look at what does not bother his voters at all and then complain abet ... check notes ... someone getting single room on some exaggerated claim.

And frankly, with HN praising Uber, Tesla and the rest of SV constantly breaking laws and rules companies, again, those students are practically saints.

OP worried about this:

> Once a critical mass of people start to feel that way (if they don't already) it'll have a devastating effect on society.

Trump winning second time, the people who lead government and GOP, the critical mass thing already happened. There was no moral already among significant share of population. Trying to pearl clutch over students is almost funny in that context.

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60. margal+yE[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 22:27:37
>>jay_ky+B9
I agree. That's not what's happening here.

My understanding is that the requirement for the benefit being discussed here is "has had a diagnosis of ADHD, anxiety, etc".

The problem lies in the combination of overdiagnosis and lax Stanford disability requirements. The teenagers honestly mentioning they have an ADHD diagnosis to get the benefit are not the problem, they are a symptom.

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61. IgorPa+1N[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 23:14:22
>>tomrod+Mi
I would not classify it as anecdata. This was research backed policy adopted by most US universities. Residential life and the Dean of Students office are usually doing a lot to cooperate with other universities. This part of US colleges is not competing with each other so they routinely share data, go to conferences together multiple times a year, and res. life directors move from college to college every few years so they all know each other incredibly well.

The point is that everyone who gets a single is super happy about it the same way that a drug addict is always happy when they get their drug of choice for free: of course it’s great. Of course it isn’t the best thing for you in the long run. I say this as someone who hated being in a double my first year and spent the next three in a single.

As far as I am concerned having apartments of 4-8 students where each has their own small room but shares a common space is ideal. But usually this is reserved for sophomore year and later.

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62. afavou+3Q[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-04 23:29:32
>>giardi+gu
It’s all connected. We are in an era where cheating is applauded and shame is non existent. Trump is not the sole cause of it but he is a contributor.
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63. int_19+w41[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 01:09:09
>>margal+My
Some levers are accessible to everyone, but the implied social contract is that you only pull it if you actually need it, because the system doesn't have enough resources for everyone to do it.
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64. int_19+X41[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 01:12:48
>>inglor+ba
And when everybody else does it (and all assume that everybody does), it really ends up being true. That's why it's so hard to get out of this hole - telling people to "start with yourself" won't cut it, they need to see that others are doing the same as well rather than trying to benefit from the opportunity.
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65. deaux+R51[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 01:20:45
>>delich+h4
No, just one of the 99% of universities in this world where people aren't en masse claiming to have disabilities for selfish gain. Neither long ago - this is as of 2025 - nor particularly far away.
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66. sherma+Vi1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 03:25:36
>>IAmBro+Ka
Sounds entirely consistent with the original story…everyone claims a mental health need because so many others are doing it.

Maybe the difference isn’t morality but accepted norms? Or maybe it’s that single room accommodation is possible now and it wasn’t then?

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67. bee_ri+Sj1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 03:35:37
>>only-o+dd
Do you think my comment is doing that? Or are you just commenting on the other comments.

FWIW, just to be clear, I don’t think “manipulating, exploiting or scamming” are good things to do!

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68. duskdo+Zk1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 03:49:07
>>Onawa+kl
I don't think people advocating for more single rooms would say that no multi-occupancy rooms should exist for people who do want them.
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69. margal+Pn1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 04:29:24
>>int_19+w41
Yes, I agree.

Trouble is, getting teenagers to accept and live by that isn't something that will pan out. Societies have been trying for millenia.

If your system built for teenagers relies on the social contract in this way, it's a bad system. People who are over a half decade from a fully developed brain aren't going to grasp this.

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70. LtWorf+Nv1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 06:17:22
>>IgorPa+2h
Lol, what an uniquely USA point of view.
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71. LtWorf+2w1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 06:19:09
>>echelo+ve
And make real disabled people unemployable.
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72. ground+GB1[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 07:32:56
>>margal+Pn1
Teenagers aren’t getting disability accommodations. Their parents are.
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73. margal+R43[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 16:17:28
>>ground+GB1
What? The parents of the college students in the article are not the ones being given extra time on tests and being given solo on-campus housing.

What disability accomodations do you think the parents are receiving?

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74. ground+FV3[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 20:11:37
>>margal+R43
- The parents are getting them FOR their kids. - why are we acting like stanford students are unaccountable teenagers
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75. margal+MW3[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-05 20:17:28
>>ground+FV3
> The parents are getting them FOR their kids.

That's not mentioned in the article. Is this your personal speculation or do you have something to support that claim? The article seems to make it clear that it is the students themselves getting these accommodations, so your claim is directly contradicting the article we're commenting on.

> why are we acting like stanford students are unaccountable teenagers

Well they're definitionally teenagers, and if you know of a way to make teenagers act en masse accountable to society's values, that would be a novel development in social human history going back to Ancient Greece. So barring that, we should treat the teenagers whose brains have not yet developed enough to grasp society-wide consequences for personal actions as such.

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76. AngryD+PH6[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-06 22:49:58
>>IgorPa+2h
I can't say I agree since I seen many people struggling with being forced into close quarters with a complete stranger that they might have nothing in common with or actively dislike and have nowhere truly private.

Maybe its fine for many extroverts, but forcing an introvert into a room with others is a great way to drive many people absolutely mental.

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77. ground+Za8[view] [source] [discussion] 2025-12-07 16:35:40
>>swatco+45
> people just disagree about values and are going to weigh judgment on others based on what they believe

Uh yeah. Moral judgments are about personal beliefs

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