radiators can be made as long as desirable within the shade of the solar panels, hence the designer can pracitically set arbitrarily low temperatures above the background temperature of the universe.
"Radiators can shadow each other," this is precisely why I chose a convex shape, that was not an accident, I chose a pyramid just because its obvious that the 4 triangular sides can be kept in the shade with respect to the sun, and their area can be made arbitrarily large by increasing the height of the pyramid for a constant base. A convex shape guarantees that no part of the surface can appear in the hemispherical view of any other part of the surface.
The only size limit is technological / economical.
In practice h = 3xL where L was the square base side length, suffices to keep the temperature below 300K.
If heat conduction can't be managed with thermosiphons / heat pipes / cooling loops on the satellite, why would it be possible on earth? Think of a small scale satellite with pyramidal sats roughly h = 3L, but L could be much smaller, do you actually see any issue with heat conduction? scaling up just means placing more of the small pyramidal sats.
In reality, probably radiator designs would rely on fluid cooling to move heat all the way along the radiator, rather than thermal conduction. This prevents the above problem. The issue there is that we now need to design this system with its pipes and pumps in such a way that it can run reliably for years with zero maintenance. Doable? Yes. Easy or cheap? No. The reason cooling on Earth is easier is that we can transfer heat to air / water instead of having to radiate it away ourselves. Doing this basically allows us to use the entire surface of the planet as our radiator. But this is not an option in space, where we need to supply the radiator ourselves.
In terms of scaling by instead making many very small sats, I agree that this will scale well from a cooling perspective as long as you keep them far enough apart from each other. This is not as great from the perspective of many things we actually want to use a compute cluster for, which require high-bandwidth communication between GPUs.
In any case, another very big problem is the fact that space has a lot of ionizing radiation in it, which means we also have to add a lot of radiation shielding too.
Keep in mind that the on-the-ground alternative that all this extra fooling around has to compete with is just using more solar panels and making some batteries.