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1. thebla+Z5[view] [source] 2026-01-22 12:38:28
>>clowes+(OP)
> If you're a man, one of your hardest battle may be not giving in to sexual urges that cause harm to others. History is littered with otherwise entirely brilliant men who succeeded at everything but this. You must succeed.

I'm not sure I like the framing of this

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2. Loughl+b8[view] [source] 2026-01-22 12:51:28
>>thebla+Z5
Uh, yeah. I've been a man my entire life and I've never ever had a problem with wanting to let my sexual urges cause harm to others. I have a very high libido even. Not once has this been a problem.

The fuck is this about?

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3. dwpdwp+nc[view] [source] 2026-01-22 13:17:30
>>Loughl+b8
Ask a divorce lawyer that question.
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4. aipats+ce[view] [source] 2026-01-22 13:26:18
>>dwpdwp+nc
If you actually did that you'd know most domestic violence is from women towards men.

But it doesn't transcend as men are usually way stronger and just brush it off.

Hint: It's so prevalent it's even considered "funny".

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5. notach+uk[view] [source] 2026-01-22 14:01:58
>>aipats+ce
Nope, that's not true.
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6. K0balt+3v[view] [source] 2026-01-22 14:56:37
>>notach+uk
If you mean, by reporting statistics, you’re probably right. But men in general are widely used to physical abuse and are expected to take it. Granted, it is rarely significantly harmful and women use it as a way to reassure themselves that men are “in charge “ or whatever, but that doesn’t change the fact that it is vile behavior.

Men’s behavior is as much shaped by female expectations as the behavior of women is molded by men.

Like it or not, we’re in this together, and cooperation with mutual understanding and benefit is the only way forward. We can see what happens when this breaks down, as in sharia law. How do you think this ends if we ceaselessly demonize men? Shame has its limits, and they start where the violence begins.

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7. IAmBro+Bl1[view] [source] 2026-01-22 18:31:07
>>K0balt+3v
Your assertion, which feels "right" to you, is by your own admission unprovable with available reporting facts.

Give up that assertion. Violence in relationships can go both ways. Neither sex gets to "win" here.

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