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1. paulgl+0Ba[view] [source] 2025-10-08 15:14:06
>>moored+(OP)
> Don’t trash your employer, nor respond if they do. If they start that, say “I’m sorry, I can imagine why you’d feel that way, but I can’t continue this conversation.”

This is so bizarre. I would show a huge lack of empathy as well.

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2. kypro+IHa[view] [source] 2025-10-08 15:53:46
>>paulgl+0Ba
This isn't bad advise if the wording wasn't so robotic.

You can empathise with someone for being upset without contributing to further the discussion. In situations like this I normally redirect... So if I received a message like, "I'm really mad at X-Corp and Mr Bossman, I can't believe they got rid of Joe!", I'd probably reply, "it's sad, I hope he's doing alright".

As long as you're not saying "yeah, f** Bossman!" you're probably fine.

That's obviously assuming you want to avoid trashing your employer... I find these events are often times for reflection. It's okay to be critical if you feel strongly, but you should do that in a professional and productive way. But if something happens which you strongly disagree with then you have a responsibility to do what you think is right, sometimes at personal cost.

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3. swiftc+yeb[view] [source] 2025-10-08 19:15:02
>>kypro+IHa
> As long as you're not saying "yeah, f* Bossman!" you're probably fine.

You're probably fine saying "yeah, f** Bossman!" too. What are they going to do, read your personal emails and then fire you too for expressing emotion over layoffs?

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