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>>moored+(OP)
> Don’t trash your employer, nor respond if they do. If they start that, say “I’m sorry, I can imagine why you’d feel that way, but I can’t continue this conversation.”

This is so bizarre. I would show a huge lack of empathy as well.

>>paulgl+0Ba
As is this:

> Don’t feel like you have continue the conversation if they respond. You can if you want, but don’t feel obligated.

You: Sorry you got laid off. I'll miss chatting about your family.

Them: I understand why they did it, but this is tough. I've got a kid in college and another graduating high school this year. Hopefully I'll be able to find something in a few months. Know of anyone that's hiring?

You: <no response>

>>bachme+8Ia
I think the point there was that, deciding in advance that you don't necessarily have to continue the conversation can unblock you from sending the mail in the first place. Thinking "if they reply back and say XYZ I wouldn't know how to respond" can be a reason people might not get in touch like TFA is suggesting.