There's no defined stop point for physical development either... Top performing athletes still have trainers, and nobody sees that as a problem. If it's mental development though, it must have a stop point?
> If it's mental development though, it must have a stop point?
What is being developed, exactly?
The athlete is the extreme example, but there are obviously people who are not career athletes that don't have a defined stop point with employing a trainer (maybe you could say "death" is the stop point).
Most everyone who goes to spinning class isn't a career athlete. Some of them are terribly out of shape, and some of those people just want to get in shape. Others may already be in shape, but see the spinning class as a way to either improve or maintain their conditioning. None of this is deemed ridiculous.
I'm curious, it's considered the norm to regularly see a doctor or dentist, do you think they're preying on their patients?
> What is being developed, exactly?
Mental health. There's obviously a more involved answer, but if you don't know it already, it's unlikely I'll be able to educate you with a comment on social media.
And many of them are being bilked as well. The fitness industry is notoriously filled with hucksters and scams, and "trainers" rarely have any real training in kinesiology or exercise science.
> I'm curious, it's considered the norm to regularly see a doctor or dentist, do you think they're preying on their patients?
Once a year for a health checkup. Is that the norm for therapy?
> Mental health. There's obviously a more involved answer
The more involved answer is that "mental health" is not well-defined, so it's not developing anything. The only therapies that have shown to have any empirical validity, like CBT, train the user in tools to change their own behaviour and thinking, then it's on the user to employ the tools. Does a family doctor call you in once a week and watch you take the pills that address your physical ailment?
The best analogy for psychiatric therapy is physical therapy for recovering from an injury or surgery, except physical therapy has a well-defined end condition, which is when you understand how to do the exercises yourself. Then it's on you to do them. This is just not the norm for "mental health" therapy.
I guess the skill is riding the line, but that doesn't feel very enjoyable.
I think I don't know what you mean by that. That sounds like you're uncomfortable with renting out party venues.