>>wut42+(OP)
Im increasingly coming to the opinion that anonymity isnt guaranteed so you should assume everyone knows what you do.m and who you are. So you should probably just use your real name and do way less online.
Havent fully swallowed this pill but its feeling inevitable.
>>noneth+M6
There's a crucial distinction here between the pragmatic and the normative, or else there's a feedback trap where accepting it as normal makes it even more common.
In other words you can plan around the worst case, but don't let go of the opinion/social-value that it's too-common and wrong and aberrant.